I have the same dynamic in my four cat pack: The oldest, Hermes, which is a large one too, is unthreatened chief, but the other three aren’t agreeing on who’s his deputy. Two of the three try to impress him, unfortunately by putting the fourth down. The fourth, Artemis, is a unfriendly, beautiful, green-eyed cat who try to stay out of the childish pecking order, and sticks to me only.
Often when people are at my home, they ask: Ok, who was the dangerous one? I say: She, Artemis, but she never attacks anybody if you leave her alone.
Once when she lay under the table with her stomach in the air, looking very cute and nice, my brother asked if he could try to pat her. No, I said, she will hit you. But the cat looked so cool and cute, and my brother thought he would make it and wham! he retreated with bloody scratches on his hand.
I told you, I said.
Jesus, he said, I didn’t even see it happen!
Anyhow, the hierarchy is most obvious when feeding: Hermes goes first, and Artemis waits until everyone else has finished.
Also, about once a year, Hermes challange everyone, one after another, on a fight, just to make sure this year too will no fuss about who’s the man, or cat. The other cats sees it coming, and hides.