Sex is for animals? Count me among the animals, then. Lovemaking - full of tenderness, depth, emotion, and that ineffable “stuff” is great. But pure, unadulterated, sweaty, wallow-in-your-sweat, heart and lung searing sex is sometimes just what the doctor ordered. In the best of circumstances, one leads to the other (and back again)over the course of hours and at the end you’re both so exhausted, happy, contented, wiped out, spent, and connected that you can’t speak.
I think you’ll find that tomatoesare more addictive than all of those things put together.
here’s an article that covers the nature of sleep in simpler terms and also covers the animal research sleep deprivation experiments. it’s from the loughborough sleep research center.
something interesting is that in human sleep deprivation experiments most subjects have none of the physical decay and disease symptoms of sleep deprivation; their mind just seems to grind down, and they show some signs of psychosis. of course, some people are more resistant to the effects of sleep deprivation; take a look at this search for Randy Gardner, the guinness record holder for sleep deprival. he still started to hallucinate on day four and have delusions on day six, despite his apperent resistance (in other words, ignore some of the student essays that came up; they’re silly and they ignore the actual charts of what happened to him during the ordeal).
however, after i checked all the documentation, i noticed I made a mistake. experiments in rats and other animals show that things die after about fourteen days of sleep deprivation, not seven. i was off by half. good thing, too; randy was up for eleven days.
While it is most certainly that most people find sex incredibly awesome, there do exist some people who for one reason or another (some psychological, some physical) do not receive nearly as much pleasure from sex as the rest of us do. There are also the nymphomaniacs who seem to require more sex than you air anonymous members.
Although it is not normal to derive absolutely no pleasure from sex, neither it is necessarily abnormal.
Many women are incapable of orgasms, as well.
As neither I nor any of my lovers have ever had anything but a serious need for making love, I confess that I do not fully understand the concept. But nonetheless, Wyvern could simply be one of the few women who do not experience the feelings of pleasure that we do. If so, then I can understand her lack of desire to have somebody pumping away, possibly even painfully, and only for his own pleasure. But also, I agree that if she loves the man,and he loves her, then they should be able to work something out. For me the art of making love has always been about giving her pleasure. If both partners love each other, then they,too should make the focus of love making on pleasuring the other. When they do that, the experience is far better than any wild animal-like “pure, unadulterated, sweaty, wallow-in-your-sweat, heart and lung searing sex is sometimes just what the doctor ordered. In the best of circumstances, one leads to the other (and back again)over the course of hours and at the end you’re both so exhausted, happy, contented, wiped out, spent, and connected that you can’t speak” sex.
And it will be so for both partners. Then experimentation comes into play and after learning what really drives your partner wild, then the more animalistic sex can be an interesting forray into the wilder side of life, every now and then, that is.