Actually it’s not always just the right size. When it’s farther away it’s too small, and we get an annular eclipse. If it’s closer we get a total eclipse.
No. The moon is moving away from the Earth. About 600 million years from now, it will have moved far enough away that there will no longer be total solar eclipses on Earth.
It isn’t necessarily a meaningless coincidence. Perhaps the spectacle of eclipses that varied between total and annular was so thought provoking to those animals around to see it start to happen (as the moon drifted further away) that it helped spur evolution in the direction of species like us who would create World Wide Webs to discuss it on.
It’s also relevant to the relative tidal forces of the Sun and Moon, and it’s not entirely implausible that the monthly tidal cycle had something to do with evolution of life on Earth. That’d only get it into the same general vicinity, though, not necessarily a perfect match.
tbh though, I’m not religious but this about the strongest argument for a god there is. All the other arguments are meh. This one is actually proper impressive - you can look up and actually see it.
The Moon’s gravity pulls up a tidal bulge on the Earth. Because this bulge is dragged around by the rotation of the Earth, it leads the Moon in its orbit somewhat. The small gravity offset caused by the bulge pulls on the Moon, speeding it up; the faster orbital velocity results in a longer orbital radius. Moon go bye-bye.
Probably not. It’s only receding at a couple centimeters a year.
Trilobites, on the other hand, probably experienced total and lengthy eclipses quite frequently. And then forgot all about them five seconds afterwards.