Why isn't anyone coming up with medicine for child molesters?

We can no more medicate this personality dysfunction than we can any other. Besides which, sexuality is enormously complicated, and far more than just hormones or brain chemistry. You can’t reprogram anyone’s sexuality. See file labeled “turning gays straight”. It doesn’t work. Besides, one can very well sexually abuse another human without the use of their hands or genitals. Sexual abuse tends to also be about power rather than sexuality.

Add all these things together, and you’ll see why it just won’t work.

And there has been a ton of research about abuser brains vs. nonabuser. The bottom line is that ain’t nothing on Og’s green earth that’s gonna change them, cure 'em, or fix 'em.

Sadly, however, sex drive is not always behind the urge to abuse. It tends to also be related to power, a sense of control, and sheer fucked-uped-ness. Thus, I can make someone totally unhorny at all, and they can still have all the motivation and drive to abuse.

Sexual abuse isn’t often just about the sex. It’s about the power.

Someone explain…I assume this means talking dirty and showing nasty pictures.

Potentially, yes, it can be pictures and talk…

It can also involve things like rope, wire, duct tape, knives, drugs, handles off garden implents, and other long vaguely cylindrical objects inserted into a child’s orficies.

Which is about as explicit as I think anyone here wants to get.

Or raping with a broomstick handle. Or making the person fondle themselves or someone else. Or forcing them to make porn of some nature. Or rape by oral sex. Or lots of things.

I worked on a rape crisis line in LA county for awhile. You don’t even want to know things that can be done given a sick enough mind and a desire to inflict pain. I’ve seen objects removed from a 12 year old girl by forceps.