This past weekend, I had a friend of mine over to watch The Godfather, as he’d never seen it before, and was curious to see it since it’s so highly touted by me (it’s my favorite movie of all time) and by film fans in general. His verdict? He liked it. He actually liked it “a little better than [he] thought [he] would”. On a ten scale, he’d give it a 7.8 (said he).
Nonetheless, he did have some criticisms/reasons he didn’t/doesn’t love the movie as much as I and countless thousands of others do. First off, he’s a young 'un (27), and he doesn’t care for what he terms “old” movies. He also thought that at nearly three hours, the movie was longer than it needed to be and that it dragged in parts (his general cut off for movie running times is two hours and fifteen minutes; after that, he starts to get bored… except one of his favorite movies is Titanic, which is a helluva lot longer than two hours and fifteen minutes, and he thinks exactly 0.0% drags or is boring).
But his main criticism was that he couldn’t really empathize and sympathize with any of the characters because they were people who knowingly participated in an “evil” lifestyle, and so he couldn’t summon up much feeling for them when that lifestyle ended up biting them in the ass. Now, a bit (more) background on my friend: he’s a born-again evangelical Christian who nonetheless doesn’t see a problem with enjoying watching horror movies or gross out comedies (he loves 'em), so he’s not exactly a prude, though he doesn’t swear or drink alcohol anymore.
Now for my take on the movie (and my response to him): Are the characters, if not “evil”, then prone to making ill-advised life choices? Without doubt. But by and large, when I start watching a movie (and always when it’s a movie of quality), I take that movie and its characters on its own terms. I don’t judge the characters by my own moral compass while I’m watching the movie, as that would inhibit me from getting into the movie and whatever story it was going to tell. In other words, I usually have no problem suspending my disbelief (as an aside, that’s why die-hard trekkies (yes, trekkies) have always puzzled me/made me laugh/annoyed me. Is it a good, compelling story? It is? Then sit back and don’t fucking worry if every fucking thing that happens jibes with fucking canon), which is why I can watch movies about rapists and murderers and child molesters and fucking Adolph-fucking-Hitler and feel maybe the tiniest measure of sympathy or empathy for them as portrayed on screen, but not IRL.
And as to length, I feel that if a director wants to make a four hour movie and can make it compelling, then I’m all for that. Yes, brevity is something to aspire to, but not in all instances and in all things.
But anyway. Those of you who don’t like The Godfather, why exactly don’t you like it? Is it for any of the reasons my friend, well, doesn’t dislike it, exactly, but surely doesn’t like it as much as me and so many others do? And those of you who do like it, do any of my friend’s points hold even a drop or two of water?
And speaking to the larger issue of movies (and books and TV shows) in general: Are there subjects or characters that are so off-putting, so repellent that you patently refuse to watch (or read) movies containing them? If so, what are they? And if not, then do you feel that people who do have limits along those lines are sort of ninnies, or not?
Please discuss.