I think all of you are missing the point.
I’ll propose a hypothetical situation: Imagine you are a white male, sitting in a bar next to your black friend. You make what you believe to be an innocuous comment involving race, and your friend immediately takes offense. What is your first response?
I know that I would apologize, and I believe most everyone on this board, including those currently defending Bennett, would do likewise. It doesn’t matter if the comment seemed harmless to you, the fact is that your friend was offended and that wasn’t your intention. The proper thing to do is apologize.
So here’s Bennett, Mr. “Book Of Virtues” himself, and he’s managed to say something that has half the country offended as all get out. Sure, he doesn’t think it was an offensive comment. Sure, some people even agree with him, saying they believe it was not meant to offend. That does not change the fact that half the country, including the White House and many high profile Republicans, find the comment “inappropriate”.
So where is Mr. Book of Virtues’ apology? It’s the same apology any one of us would give in his shoes. Where is it? Nowhere. The guy maintains that he has no reason to apologize, even going to defending it as a thought experiment.
Why is it so hard to apologize? Does an apology cost anything? Will it harm him somehow to apologize? Will he seem less virtuous? No, absolutely not. Yet a day later, Bennett hasn’t apologized. If he did so now, I certainly wouldn’t think it was the least bit sincere. He should have apologized immediately.
Since he didn’t, we can draw certain conclusions about his character. My conclusion is that Bennett feels he somehow has the right to make this offensive comment. He feels justified. Where we would feel bad for offending our friends, he does not. What do you suppose motivates this?
Having drawn these conclusions, now look upon the actual content of the message. He feels there is nothing to apologize for in the statement, therefore, he believes the statement is just. He could have restated, he could have clarified, but he likes it how it stands. What does that say?
It says to me that he’s a damn racist and hypocrite. He can go and eat his stupid Book of Virtues.