Some thoughts…
I built my new house in 2007 and the thng I regret is that we did not put enough ethernet drops in the house. Plus, wherever your 3rd bedroom will likely be the office / computer room, there are never enough power outlets. Look carefully at the room layout, imagine where you would put desks, TVs, etc and put the outlets there. We made sure that the power outlets in the master bedroom would line up with the bedside tables rather than being hidden behind the headboard. We also put an alarm control console by the bed in the master bedroom so we don’t have to walk to the front door to turn on the night alarm.
(I also regret the IDIOTS who did teh wiring for minimum wage, after they charged me a bundle. I find stupid stuff like a RJ11 socket at one location instead of RJ45.)
But yes, you are far better off being able to hook everything together wired. Cat5e or Cat6. So far, there is still no simple standard for room-to-room distribution of HDTV, the way there is for cable TV. If I had to guess, Ethernet cabling will be the way to go. So have a drop wherever you put a TV, wherever you put a phone. There is long-distance HDMI, but I suspect it will be replaced by some sort of streaming; besides, in 2007 multiple 50-foot HDMI cables would cost more than all the wiring put together. You could instead use a Slingbox and ethernet. Heck, nowadays your Bluray, game console, TV istself, and probably one or two other devices are ethernet-pluggable. You’ll probably end up with an ethernet switch just for the electronics area…
Wifif is great, but if you play with an iPhone, you will probably find a minimum of 5 to 10 wifi networks visible in any residential neighbourhood point. Do you want to rely on that crowded a spectrum for HD streaming.
Of course, we also had the security system wired, so that window and door sensors and motion detectors in key spots cover the house. In some places, an alarm system monitored by a security company is almost a given.
A luxury we splurged on too, was a sound system. We have ceiling speakers for surround in the living room and rec room. Our layout is such that there was only one logical spot for the TV. The location of the audience/sofa means we could not mount the rear speakers in/on a wall. It’s great that there are no rear speaker wires or outlets, just 3 ceiling grills. The spot for the flat screen TV is also on the wall, with cables in the wall to the electronics niche and speakers mounted in the wall beside the TV, and a wall plate in the corner from the electronics niche for the subwoofer.
We even made sure to have an outlet for power and TV (and ethernet) high up on the wall of the master bedroom to wall-mount a flat-screen TV with no cables showing. Heck, you can do anything before the drywall goes on, it’s a LOT cheaper than doing it 5 years from now…
The Marantz tuners have a “second room” option, where a second output (i.e. radio tuned to specific station) feeds down to a cenral location that allows us to listen to it anywhere in the house - Speakercraft MZC-66 with 6 zones, speaker and controls, including the ability to listen to what’s playing on the livingroom TV anywhere in the house. Oh, and I plugged an Airport station in to the unit, so one of my input choices is music streamed via iTunes from my PC, iPad, or iPhone. The aforementioned BOZOs never go around to installing a functional IR input, otherwise you could also do things like control a tuner, etc. from any control station.
Our tax is based on finished area; the electrician said if we put too many outlets in the unfinished area of the basement, it would be counted as finished by the city. (“you have everything there, you’re just waiting for the inspection to be done an you’ll probably put on the drywall!”) So I regret that it will be a major effor to wire the unfinished half of the basement. I wonder if I could have had the wires pulled into the insulated walls, even if they were not terminated with outlet boxes or tied into the lectrical panel…