We have the traditional solid red oak in our living room and bedroom, and I love it. It has a hard polyurethane finish that has been bulletproof for about 5-6 years now. The only problems we’ve had is where a jug of water for the aquarium had a slow pinhole leak, and some of the flooring buckled up a bit. Not sure how long it had been leaking - maybe a few days? But when I discovered it, I blotted up all I could, and as the dry days of winter came, it laid back down fairly well.
I do notice some of the joints have opened up to hairline cracks in the winter, though. But as the humidity comes back in the spring, they will close up again. The high gloss does show dirt more, and since we have 3 cats, we always have dustballs, it seems. But I’d gladly have those rather than the ratty 30 year old carpet that was there before we had this put down.
A couple of thoughts on the topic:
Traditional wood floors will make it easier to sell when the time comes. You may love an exotic floor made of genetically enhanced purpleheart with rococo inlay, but when prospective buyers see it, it may make or break the deal. If you plan on peddling the place in the next few years, keep that in mind.
If you’re going with a new floor, expect to trip over the raw wood for a few days or more. Our installer wanted the stuff in our living room for at least a week before he would put it down. He wanted it to acclimate to the humidity and temperature that was in the house, so that it wouldn’t be shifting and warping while he tried to install it. It IS wood, so it will move some any way, but it’s still gorgeous now.
The finish he used on our floors was so smelly that we got out of the house for the first night. It was worth it, though - it looks great.
The staples he used to fasten the flooring to the subfloor took chips out of the basement ceiling. I have boxes of junk and stuff stored down there that have wood slivers in them still.
The process of sanding will raise lots of dust, and you may end up with the room draped in plastic to try to minimize its movement through the house. You won’t stop it, though. Try to arrange to have this floor put down in warm weather, so you can have windows open to vent most of it outside.
We had our living room/dining room done all at once. It divides our bedroom from the rest of the house. We literally had to walk outside and around the house to come in across the deck to get to our room at night when the floor was drying. Plan accordingly if your floor plan requires this, too. Obviously, you need to keep pets, etc off the floor for a couple of days also.