Well, if you already think Republicans are crazy bygots it is not going to be easy to persuade you otherwise. That’s a pretty hefty label, and quite unfair, but perhaps I can answer your question without falling into the silly arguing that has gone on so far.
The Republican Party is, by and large, out of balance with the ideals that got me interested back when I first became old enough to vote. (12 years ago, in the interest of full disclosure.) I have never agreed with the war in Iraq, although I would not vote for a candidate who promised pulling out. I don’t like the war, but if we left it would create far more problems then if we stay. Right now we are basically holding back two sides of an insurgency, which in a sense is intended to create a bubble in which a political system can be manifested in order to build up it’s own national security. The biggest problem, in my opinion, with our presence in Iraq is that we don’t have our goals in the right place. I read an article about a year ago, and I apologize for no citations on it but I couldn’t remember who wrote it just that it was in a book called “The Best American Political Writing”, that gave the numbers on Iraq’s military building since the US presence. The problem, as it stated, was that there were no incentives for top level military personnel who trained Iraqis or helped build military infrastructures in Iraq. What that means is that no one wanted to do it, it was a crappy job that didn’t further your career much in the military. Furthermore, of 100 or so odd regiments of the Iraqi military, only 4 existed on a level that could operate and function on their own i.e. without US backup, be it with logistics, personnel, communications, what have you. My belief is that if a Democrat got into office who planned to pull out of Iraq without finishing that particular job, working to build the Iraq military so it could largely stand alone, we would be doing a great disservice to the Iraqi people. I don’t think that means I advocate violence or promote warmongering or a culture of fear. Furthermore, I don’t believe that can even be construed to mean that I believe in those things. And again, I am a Republican.
On gay marriage, I think it is a relative non-issue. It is simply a talking point that rallies the Religious Right. I don’t believe that these religious people, by and large, believe they are being bygots. They simply don’t realize, for the most part, that homosexuals didn’t “choose” to be homosexuals. They see homosexual acts as sinful acts and think it was a conscience choice. This problem will not be fixed in the political system, but while always being stigmatized by some, will some day wither and die with the people who grew up with it.
A point I want to make about a hypocrisy that I notice rather often with Democrats or those on the left, is that this type of bygotry exists prominently on both sides. I live in West Virginia, and just recently when the Democratic race was all but over, my state had a landslide victory for Hillary, as did Kentucky just after that. I know that by and large the people in this state are good, hardworking, caring folks; but you would be crazy if you didn’t believe that it wasn’t based on race that this state’s election was so lopsided. And in West Virginia, you have to be registered a Democrat to vote for a Democrat in the primary, so these were Democrats who did this. Furthermore, if Tim Russert were still with us he would already have WV and KY colored red on his election night map.
I’d like to see the Republican Party shift back towards the ideals of smaller government and less spending. Had John McCain beat GWB initially 8 years ago, we might have… or had GWB stuck to his initial promises of doing just those things, we might have. Obviously, things happened, both domestic and abroad, where priorities have shifted (something I think most Democrats have decided to forget or just wish to deny), but I do believe that only a Republican set of ideals can get things back on the right track. I wouldn’t necessarily hate seeing Obama as President, at least the State of the Union Address would be watchable, but I don’t think he’s ready to lead this country right now. He might be just vanilla enough not to cause any more problems, but I don’t think he’s capable of fixing the ones we have. McCain, in my eyes, at least has some potential.