Would the World Be Better If There Is No Sexual Desire?

Best not to speak about what you don’t know about, Dio.

There’s plenty of scientific documentation that erections can be forced via ligature, and that ejaculation can ensue even while the subject is in moderate to severe pain. Even unwilling subjects.

Not at all. As I mentioned above, strangulation will do it, and is the historically favored method for woman-on-man rape. Hanging is famous for causing that reaction in fact.

You’re asking if guys get horny absent any specific erotic thoughts? Does morning wood count?

I can only answer for myself, but I would say no. The idea of being horny without being horny for something does not compute to me.

Yes, morning wood counts.

Also:

from: Archives of Sexual Behavior
Volume 8, Number 2, 139-150, DOI: 10.1007/BF01541234
Retarded ejaculation: A review
Dennis J. Munjack and Pamela H. Kanno

Well great, then, problem solved. We’ll choke all the sperm out the men. I’m sure they won’t mind.

I can imagine the birds and bees discussions with kids are going to get a lot more complicated.

“see, Johnny,” when a woman loves a man very much, she gets a rope or a cattle prod and…"

I never said a guy couldn’t have an ejaculation without an erection (it’s happened to me). Ejaculation wthout an erection is not the same as ejaculation without erotic thoughts. Erections. per se are not the same as being horny. Morning wood is just an erection, not necessarily sexual arousal.

Are you now making the claim that a man cannot have an ejaculation without erotic thoughts? If so, some credible cites would be appreciated. And difficult to find.

You might want to check the security settings on your computer, then. A few minutes ago, someone logged into your account and posted this:

I never said it was a nice thing to do.

And “love” probably wouldn’t be a very common or comprehensible emotion anymore in a society without desire, especially for anyone born after the change. Most would never experience it.

Why don’t you read those posts again. We weren’t talking about either ejaculation or erections. She was asking about getting horny. She was asking if men get sexually aroused absent any kind of erotic thoughts or stimulus - without any kind of desire for something. She was asking if men ever masturbate without any “sexy thoughts.” If you read my response you’ll also see that I said “I can only answer for myself.” Pay fucking attention, ok.

That was said about a man’s ability to have sexual intercourse, not merely to ejaculate. Pay attention.

Nefazodone-induced spontaneous ejaculation:

A host of other drugs can cause similar situations, as can spinal cord lesions and electrostim in various locations of the brain, spinal cord, and ano-genital regions.

You should watch your language.

I no longer consider you a very nice person.

And I was addressing your comments before you posted your disclaimer that you were only answering for yourself.

You’re the one who attacked me.

What are you talking about? You quoted my disclaimer in your post.

The spin is strong with this one…

Explain how. What am I spinning?

No. It’s just obvious that you are. You made an absolute statement, later added a qualifier, and are now acting as though the qualifier was there all along, or that the absolute statement still holds, or something that’s just going to get more and more indignant as long as people indulge you, which I won’t beyond this post…

I didn’t add anything. The qualifyer WAS there all along.

Actually, I don’t even know what the hell you’re talking about. What absolute statement did I make and then how did I qualify it?

Platonic love? Love toward children?

Also men can and do get (from personal experience) random erections even without any sexual desire.

If there’s one thing Judy Blume taught me, it’s this.

Qin, would it cut back on the number of threads you made every week if I just said that it’s really OK to spend hours on end in your room/the bathroom choking the chicken? It doesn’t make you a bad person or an elder abuser. It doesn’t really kill kittens. I swear.