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No. He’s not. It’s not a morally relativistic ethical decision or whatever bullshit rationalization you want to call it. It’s simpler than that. If you live in this country, enjoy it’s freedoms and advantages, than it is a part of the basic societal contract that you do your duty when you are called upon to do it.
If you fail to do so, you’re not a man. You’re not even a dog. You are the same as a person who would run and leave his children in danger. You are the same as a person who would cower and hide while others fight and die on your behalf.
I consider it contemptible.
It has nothing to do with cowardice. Lots of cowards go to war. It has to do with character. If a man feels that he cannot ethically fight for his country than the path a man of character takes is the same path Ali and Thoreau take. You stand up to the government. You object, and you take your punishment.
There is no ethic in enjoying the fruits of society by evading and lying so that you don’t have to bear your share of the costs.
Fair enough. And some did. And, they paid the price. Others hid or went to Canada or claimed diseases and exemptions and let other people fight for them.
You cannot both claim the ethical highground by objecting to the war while at the same time lying or running to avoid your duty and the consequences of your decision.
I think I know my father a little bit better than you do. He respected people who stood up for what they believed in.
The key point is the standing up. If you are unwilling to stand up for what you beleive in your beliefs don’t matter, and neither do you.
So, I think I understand quite clearly his respect for those who disagreed but stood up for their beliefs, and I’m pretty damn certain about his contempt for those who wouldn’t and didn’t.
Someone who objects to the war but hides, lies, or runs to avoid the negative consequences of both war and his personal beliefs has no ethos.
The ethics of self-interest are not ethics at all.