So some of my friends and I decided to drive from our rural college to the next decent-sized town to go see the Harry Potter movie. One of my good friends, who we’ll call “Laura,” was driving. Now, Laura is a very kind, compassionate, forgiving person, probably too much for her own good - for instance, she’s constantly letting her bitch of a roommate walk all over her, but that’s another story. Also coming along was a girl we’ll call “Mary,” Laura’s sorority sister. I’d only met Mary a couple times before, but she seemed cool. We had some very interesting conversations, and it was clear that she had a few issues, but, well, who among us doesn’t? So I was pretty much looking forward to getting to know her on the drive.
The drive to the movie, and most of the way home, passed without incident. We decided to stop for gas in the small town just outside the bounds of our very large campus. As she’s getting out to gas up, Laura notices that Mary doesn’t have her seatbelt on. Laura’s a stickler for this, so she lays down the law - if you’re going to ride in my car you’re going to wear your seatbelt.
Mary looks at her and, without a word, gets out of the car and starts walking home. This is a few miles’ walk in 47-degree weather and she’s wearing only a light jacket.
Laura, being the kind of person that she is, starts freaking out and blaming herself for Mary’s idiotic self-destructive behavior. We both knew that if we chased Mary down and offered her a ride without a seatbelt at this point she’d never accept it. My suggestion was to call the police and let them drag Mary’s sorry ass home, but no, if we did that she’d never speak to Laura again, and we couldn’t have that, could we? So Laura called a mutual friend and had them drive out and bring Mary home.
What the fuck does that juvenile, selfish, vindictive bitch think she’s doing? I mean, I’m fairly proud and stubborn myself, and I know those are character flaws, but I’ve never taken it to that kind of extreme. Laura’s doing her a favor, she won’t let Mary have her way in one tiny, insignificant thing out of concern for Mary’s own safety, so she decides to punish Laura through her own self-destructive behavior? How dare she take advantage of Laura’s friendship and compassion like that? How fucking dare she?! If it were just me, I’d be able to write Mary off and forget about it. But Laura’s involved, and because of the kind of person she is, she’s going to forgive Mary and go right on allowing Mary to get away with shit like this. And I’m sure right now Mary’s congratulating herself on not giving in, thinking that it proves her strength of character or some crap like that, completely oblivious to the fact that it actually proves she has the emotional maturity of a two-year-old. Fuck you, Mary. Gaaaah!