Or to paraphrase David St. Hubbins and Nigel Tufnel: “It’s such a fine line between temporary and…” “…Permanent.”
My understanding of TIA is similar to this and this, although they too acknowledge the term “mini-stroke” in reference to TIA.
I should explain that I am biased in my understanding by virtue of being growing-older-and-ever-crustier anatomic pathologist who was long ago tutored and admonished by older and crustier anatomic pathologists to stay as much as possible, when thinking about diseases, firmly grounded in pathophysiologic processes and anatomic substrates, or, as those old fossils put it, to what’s actually going on.
With that bias in mind, I’d say the people you describe, notwithstanding the vernacular “diagnosis” they may have been given, suffered bonafide strokes and not TIAs. Or, to be inclusive, they may have suffered TIAs, but the lasting deficits you describe were caused by bonafide strokes, i.e. “permanent” death of brain tissue, rather than “temporary” functional impairment of same. That’s not to say that someone could not have a bonafide stroke and recover. Over what I would characterize as a more than a mere “transient” period of time, other areas of the brain can to some extent adapt to and take over the prior functions of areas of the brain that died, and thus a person may regain some and maybe even all of the function that was impaired. The smaller, or more “mini”, the stroke, the more likely and quickly that can happen, all else equal.
Again, I think the distinction is not merely semantic or academic, and the examples you give make that point. While our SDMB clinical physician friends undoubtedly have more direct experience in this than I (who has none), I would think that when someone suffers lasting impairment due to a bonafide stroke it is time to consider two things: (1) Intervention to mitigate the likelihood of more strokes; and (2) physical, occupational, or some other kind of therapy to work on restoring the lost function. When someone suffers temporary impairment and subsequent recovery “shortly” thereafter due to a TIA, there’s no need for (2). There is a need for (1), not to prevent more “strokes” because one hasn’t happened yet, but to prevent one from happening in the first place. The examples you provided, it sounds to me, were people who suffered bonafide strokes and then partially recovered the lost function over time, aided by therapy. (It sounds like your intrepid grandfather acted as his own physical therapist, and that he was probably cut from the same leathery cloth as the exacting and dogged old pathologists who taught me my trade.)
The partial overlap of the symptoms and intervention, as well as the similarity in the underlying pathophysiology accounting for TIAs and strokes, probably underlies the use of the term “mini-stroke” in reference to TIAs. But, IMHO, it muddies the water more than clarifies it, and gives people a false impression of what really happens/happened to them.