::smacks Danalan upside the head::
Thank you for giving me all those nasty things to NOT think about…
Ahem, back to the topic. I too dislike needles. And you are not the only one: I’ve seen large men cringing and sweating during a blood donation. A bit of advice, for what it’s worth:
[li] Use the bathroom before going in to the donation room. You’ll have one less thing to stress about.[/li]
[li] Tell the attendant that you really dislike needles, but are doing this out of civic duty - I’ve found they are usually sympathetic and reassuring (except for one Atilla the Hunlette who told me in a snotty voice that I was too afraid and she couldn’t work on me; one of the other nurses took her on the side and gave her an earful about manners and decorum). They are happy to see anyone who is able to give blood, considering the shortages, and will work with you.[/li]
BTW, all of the blood banks I’ve been to really hate the terms ‘vampire’, ‘blood-sucking’, etc. It’s difficult enough getting people to donate without those terms being bandied about. It’s like one of those jokes that was funny the first time around, but after about the 900th time has more than run its course, like an overused catch-phrase. The blood bank I go to decorates the office with orange and black streamers for Halloween, but no bats or vampires, for obvious reasons.
[li] Ask them to distract you - talk to you about something else while they work on you. I’ve found most of the attendants are able to do the work and still converse with me on something non-medical at the same time.[/li]
[li] Ask for a cloth to cover the tubing. I do this all the time. The pressure of the tubes is still there, but if I do not see it, I think about it less.[/li]
[li] Close your eyes and think of England; remember, you are doing your civic duty. (Okay, little joke - they’ll probably ask you to keep your eyes open, so they can make sure you are alright.)[/li]
[li] Remember, they will be near you to monitor you. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable, dizzy, nauseated, or whatever, tell them right away. They do not want to see you in distress and will fix the problem.[/li]
Filling the bag takes about five minutes. Five minutes of your life for someone who is in severe need. You won’t know who you helped, but you’ll have helped someone.
One other thing to consider - they may ask you if you have had aspirin or other OTC drugs (in addition to the normal screening proedures) in the last 5 days. If you have not had any, they may use your blood for a ‘baby pack’ - up to 5 babies can benefit from one pint of blood, but it is vital that you have not have any medications for a few days prior.
I still hate needles, but I do apheresis about every other week – that’s two hours of a needle in each arm, giving platlets used for for burn victims and chemo patients, and most of my blood is returned to me. (Plus someone will scratch my nose when I need it.)
So there is hope for the squeamish.
Oh, and I’ve only passed out once, when the attendant tripped, dropped my bag and it bounced. The last thing I thought was “I am NOT giving them any more if that breaks.” Little fear of that - those bags are thick and sturdy.