I think only people who have never experienced it in any way would say “mental”. They may think that those with a mental illness can either just take a pill or are just happy all the time. Not so.
Mental illness is a type of hell that no one should experience.
A mental illness can definitely destroy your perspective of what is real or not. It’s tiring to play mind games with yourself and not be able to trust your own thoughts and feelings.
Physical. I would hope the people that love me will still do so if I’m physically or mentally ill. But with the latter, there’s no guarantee that I would know or be aware of that love. That would be immeasurably worse.
Physical. I would swap for say, diabetes, in a heartbeat, no question. You don’t have “explain” a physical illness the same way you do mental illness. People may forget you have diabetes or no longer notice the crutches, but they will *never * forget that you were depressed/bipolar/schizophrenic, etc.
Physical - I know I’d have loving people around me and taking care of me through any hardship, but I wouldn’t put them through “losing” me to mental illness. If my body is broken, I’m still there, I’m still the person they love. Mental ilness can take that away.
Yes, well, let me be the first to tell you that mental illness isn’t like the movies. It comes with unbearable isolation, loneliness, and misery. Also, narcissism isn’t a mental illness, so I venture to say you don’t even know what the H you’re talking about.
I have the great fortune to suffer from both mental illness and a relatively incurable physical malady. Every day I have to make the choice to feel normal or happy, to do things as simple as grocery shop or go out with friends. EVERYTHING is difficult, and if I wanted to, I could have something to complain about for every minute of the day.
But given the choice, I’d rather be rid of my mental illness, because I can remember when I didn’t have it and it breaks my heart to look back on a happy, fulfilling, content, confident youth and know I’ll never have that again.
Definitely physical; people are much more sympathetic/understanding of a physical illness than of something they can’t actually see. People with an anxiety disorder or some type of phobia are often just told not to worry about it or to suck it up. Mental illnesses are just as serious as physicall illnesses.
I’d rather be an amputee, or suffering some other obvious physical ailment. Not only for the reasons others have mentioned upthread, but because people don’t tell, say, the amputee to “Just get over it, you’ve got everything going for you!”
Plus, you’re allowed to be cranky in public. And that’s a huge perk from my point of view.
I have and I’ll still take mental anguish over physical pain any day. Not to trivialize the suffering of the mentally ill, but physical illnesses are no walk in the park either.
I’m agreeing with the majority here. I’d much rather have a physical ailment than a mental illness, and I know whereof I speak. A severe physical illness is nothing to take lightly, of course, but I believe there are much more effective treatments for most effects of physical illness than there are for “mental” diseases. Treatment for mental illness is still pretty damned hit and miss, and the misses can be devastating.
Then, of course, there is the credibility issue. Going to a new provider for help with a mental illness is really much easier if you just bring your own lie detector. It cuts down significantly on the :dubious: time.