The song is clearly about “Deep Throat”, which explains all the secrecy about his/her identity.
Yeah, but this is the first time she’s offered to let anyone in on the secret.
Okay, earlier when i bet is was Warren, I meant, if the song is about anyone in particular, it is Warren. But I really doubt it is anyone specifically. I write poems and songs a lot and I recently wrote a poem a lot like “Your’e So Vain”.
Torn to Pieces
I crouch in the darkness, looking at your photograph . I am torn between worship and hatred. My love, my hate, the unknown mix and further fuel my insanity. I lay there crying, not knowing why.
I need to hold you, I need to hurt you, I need you to hold me, I need you to hurt me. I need to go back to the begining, I need to go to the end.
I am lost, I am confused, I am torn. The feelings don’t cancel eachother out, they just strengthen eachother.
I am gone, I am insane, I am torn to pieces…
%n how sure can you be the photo isn’t of you?
This was originally in my info on a.i.m and anyone who read it, there name popped in there. I actually got a couple of people to freak out about it.
Cheese, Xander_Cane that was pretty, uhhh, intense. Just how long did you know Warren for, anyway?
And of course, the irony is that whoever the guy is, the song’s not about him at all. It’s about Carly Simon, and that’s the whole point of the song. 
It was you, wasn’t it.
it was about me. i think.