I found a few threads on alcoholism, but nothing this specific, so here goes.
Got an alcoholic family member who might be ready to quit. I want some unbiased information on success rates for treatment methods – but I can’t find it!
I find claims by different clinics and such, but that’s not unbiased. NIH, NIAA, etc. discuss various treatment methods, but no clear recommendations – maybe they don’t want to be in the position of favoring one over another.
Does anyone know of good research out there, in print or on Web?
If any dopers are pros in the field, I’d appreciate their professional viewpoint as well.
Not looking for anecdotal evidence, which is why this is posted to GQ.
I guess I should say something about the personality type cause I know that affects what works – will try to be brief.
Longtime drinker, doesn’t deny or hide his alcoholism. No family history on either side. 6-7 beers/evening is “maintenance dose”. He can drink twice that in 4 hrs or so without seeming drunk. If he wants to get drunk (rare) he’ll start on tequila in addition to the beer.
About 10 years ago he quit for a good year and a half. Just decided to and did it. Then decided to start again and did so with no qualms. He quit smoking maybe 20 years ago cold turkey, after telling a friend he could do it.
Now he’s getting concerned about liver damage etc and doesn’t like how much he spends on alcohol.
12-step is off the table. We all agree that won’t work for him. He’s a virulent atheist, has no truck with “higher powers” of any sort, and honestly doesn’t care what anyone else thinks about what he does.
We lived for a while where pot was decriminalized, and he used that instead of booze for a while and was much easier to live with, but he quickly got to where he’d smoke it first thing and then all day (not so w/ booze) and he hated the side effects, so he went back to alcohol.
To be blunt, he’s a sociopath, and he does try to get along, but being around people wears him down (he calls it “being on stage”) – but he doesn’t want to retire, says there’ll be nothing to make him get up, and the extended family live together, so he’s around people every day. I think the drinking helps him let his guard down so he can let his anger out – which he does. But, thank God, never at the kids, and rarely even around them. Usually at stupid stuff like the TV or paper.
I love him anyway, what can I say, and I want to help him get his best shot at quitting.