I read the CNN story about the teenage girl who killed herself, supposedly with the encouragment and assistance of a Usenet community, alt.suicide.holiday. I visited the newsgroup and lurked. I saw the expected influx of people telling the regulars there that ther were horrible murderers and how the membership reacted.
One thing that came out of my looking at the posts there was that you could call them “pro-suicide” only if you wanted to be political about it. The members all claimed that they were all really “pro-choice,” in that they felt that if a person decided that they did not want to live anymore and had the courage to actually take steps to achieve that goal, that there was nothing wrong with it. A look at the last thread that the girl did shows responses that are neither begging hetr to reconsider, nor saying they were glad she was doing it - only non-judgmental well wishes to a “safe trip” since that’s what she really wanted.
Sure, my first thought was probably the same as yours: How can anyone send well wishes when a perfectly healthy, albeit unhappy 19 year old is taking a cyanide overdose to intentionall end her life.
Then I got to thinking… I’m a Libertarian and a big supporter of personal liberties. I believe that everyone should be able to do with their life what they want. If I want to be non-hypocritical about this view, I have to say that a person has the right to end their life if they so choose and that if I knew that this was what they really wanted, I shouldn’t stand in their way.
Of course, that sounds horrible as well, even though the ASHers (the regs from the Usenet group call themselves that) actually embrace that attitude and use the group as a place for others like them to congregate and talk to each other about things.
So I am torn here… Am I being inconsistant if I exclude the right to end one’s life as a right that we all should have regardless of laws or popular opinion? Or am I a monster if I don’t?
And at the end of the day, like the subject says, why is suicide bad?