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Old 12-21-2008, 04:13 AM
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Male orgasm without physical stimulation - possible TMI

It's not my intent to titillate anyone (though feel free!), but I would like to share an erotic experience I enjoyed with the hope that someone else might also try and benefit from it:

Some months ago, I was alone and relaxing in the delight of a private sauna. The combination of heat and being naked almost always causes me to feel aroused. So, given the setting, and being alone, I thought I would try an experiment; I wanted to know if I could ejaculate under will without actually touching myself.

With a particularly vivid fantasy in mind, I quickly became aroused and had to resist the very strong urge to touch myself. The pleasurable sensations went on for a period of about 10 minutes and included several enjoyable rounds of tumescence/detumescence. I wanted to prolong the experience, yet at the same time I was intrigued to know if I could accomplish the desired outcome.

I am pleased to report that I had one of the strongest, most intense orgasms and ejaculations of my life!

Afterward, I had a feeling that I can only describe as "magical". I felt like I had achieved some kind of mastery over my mind... it took things (to rip off "Mad TV"), to a "hole 'nuther level"!

I kept this a secret, even from my fiancee, for about ten months... I just shared it with her yesterday!

I would like to know if anyone other guys have tried/experienced this, and what the outcome was, and also if any women have done the same.

Just curious! Thanks.
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Old 12-21-2008, 04:36 AM
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That's pretty powerful powers of concentration. Most guys can only achieve that while sleeping.
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Old 12-21-2008, 04:46 AM
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Ommmmmmmmmmmmm my god!
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Old 12-21-2008, 05:17 AM
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Really? I'm surprised that this so far seems unusual. I looked up "auto ejaculation" (the first term that came to mind) and besides finding sites about having sex in cars, I haven't been able to find anything on the subject.

Regarding dreaming and nocturnal emissions; I've always assumed that ejaculation while asleep is due to actual movement against bedding, etc... though I don't have any proof of this!

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Old 12-21-2008, 05:43 AM
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Mind you this noted internet crackpot has written about the subject.
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Old 12-21-2008, 10:25 AM
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I hope you cleaned up after yourself man.
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Old 12-21-2008, 10:35 AM
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I hope you cleaned up after yourself man.
Yes, I hope by 'private sauna' you mean one that you have in your house, which you washed thoroughly afterwards.

I've known women to have orgasms without digital stimulation, thanks to Kegel exercizes.
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Old 12-21-2008, 11:59 AM
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I saw a program once about some really charismatic and scary prisoner somewhere in the U.S. that seduced a prison guard and she helped him escape or something like that. Anyways, she related a similar story that he was able to achieve auto-orgasm. Apparently it was something that turned her on and made him irresistible to her and was part of his seduction.
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Old 12-21-2008, 02:11 PM
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My Partner can do this easily. He can cum while kissing me or blowing me, without even touching himself. It can also happen while I'm asleep, and he's just lying there watching me (I'm flattered by this, but feel a little left out). I've managed to do it a few times, myself, with tremendous concentration. But not recently.

My partner can do several things that other consider impossible.
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Old 12-21-2008, 02:57 PM
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I've known women to have orgasms without digital stimulation, thanks to Kegel exercizes.
Yup. I have done a few times. Once or twice on public transportation with nobody else catching on.



(I was really bored)
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Old 12-21-2008, 03:09 PM
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Oh, of course it's possible. I've cum by just making out with someone I thought was really, really hot.

Also, practice flexing, tensing and sucking your gut in while you're in that erotic state. It puts pressure on your prostate, and we all know what happens when that gets stimulated, don't we guys?
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Old 12-21-2008, 03:39 PM
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Oh, of course it's possible. I've cum by just making out with someone I thought was really, really hot.

Also, practice flexing, tensing and sucking your gut in while you're in that erotic state. It puts pressure on your prostate, and we all know what happens when that gets stimulated, don't we guys?
That's what I came in to add.

Not everyone can do that. I basically can't, but a friend of mine can. He can ejaculate in about 30 seconds while climbing a rope. Any guesses as to when he learned how to do this?

This company makes devices that can do it for you, internally (NSFW, but why would you be reading this thread at work?):

http://www.malegspot.com/

I think it probably works better for those who can do it on their own. I like it, but I don't use it all the time.

If you get really good at all of this, you can try "edging." That's where you prolong an orgasm for as long as you want. And I mean the height of orgasm. We're starting to get into TMI territory (wait, weren't we already there?), but sometimes the results are funny. Remember, just as nausea and vomiting are two separate processes, so are orgasm and ejaculation. And lots o' different parts contribute to the ejaculate, and they don't all have to release at the same time.
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Old 12-21-2008, 03:55 PM
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He can ejaculate in about 30 seconds while climbing a rope. Any guesses as to when he learned how to do this?
3rd grade gym class? Gym teachers are pervs. I distinctly remember how to gain the "energy rush" needed to climb all the way to the top.
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Old 12-21-2008, 04:00 PM
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3rd grade gym class? Gym teachers are pervs. I distinctly remember how to gain the "energy rush" needed to climb all the way to the top.
Good guess!

Paul Feig, who created Freaks and Geeks, has a collection of short stories about being a kid. One of them deals with the rope. I've heard stories about the rope all my life, and I always thought that people were rubbing off on it. Well, maybe some are, but mostly what is talked about is the "internal" stuff going on.

I feel like I'm missing out!
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Old 12-21-2008, 06:52 PM
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I've only done it once. I was having a great dream and I started waking up part-way through, eroused and "at full mast" in my half-asleep state I decided to concentrate really hard and flex my muscles and such, eventually achieving the desired result. Great orgasm, though I needed to change my boxers before I went back to sleep
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Old 12-21-2008, 08:57 PM
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I learned to climax without using hands, at age 12 or so. What I needed to do was to go hang from a soccer goal post (forked at the top) by my armpits, legs in the air, and by forcefully tensing my lower body muscles and swinging my legs in the air, I'd come in about ten seconds. Oh, the sweet orgasms before much semen output!(naturally, I had to keep my pants on).

Later I learned that guys masturbate by stroking their penis by hand. It felt like nothing, I thought I had a much better system figured out. Jerking off is much more convenient than finding a soccer goal to hang from, though, so I grudgingly made the transition once I started the growth spurt (and massive ejaculations).

I've often wondered if I could still get off without touching my dick. I still feel some of my best orgasms ever came via that method.
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Old 12-21-2008, 09:01 PM
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Dude, you're like a Jedi Master of masturbatory skills. The force is strong with you my son.
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Old 12-21-2008, 10:51 PM
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I learned to climax without using hands, at age 12 or so. What I needed to do was to go hang from a soccer goal post (forked at the top) by my armpits, legs in the air, and by forcefully tensing my lower body muscles and swinging my legs in the air, I'd come in about ten seconds. Oh, the sweet orgasms before much semen output!(naturally, I had to keep my pants on).
Why would this work? Where is the advantage?

I agree with SHAKES, this sounds like some advance grandmaster masturbation technique.
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Old 12-22-2008, 01:00 AM
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Relevant youtube link
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Old 12-22-2008, 07:55 PM
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Why would this work? Where is the advantage?
Beats me(at). It just does.
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Old 12-22-2008, 08:02 PM
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I've known 2 girls who could do this. Always thought it was pretty much impossible for guys. I've never even been able to finish from a sexual dream.
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Old 12-22-2008, 08:08 PM
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Why would this work? Where is the advantage?
I dunno, but it works. I always assumed the abdominal muscles were putting the squeeze on the prostate, kinda not unlike how guys wake up with a stiffy due to a full bladder.

Cecil really owes us a thorough column on the subject of "the rope" phenomenon.
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Old 12-22-2008, 08:09 PM
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I'd really like to see some studies on the muscle groups used to "climb the gym rope", across both sexes, as they relate to orgasms.

I'm a girl, and since the age of about 8 or 9 (I realized, years later, when I actually tried to consciously masturbate) I have been able to achieve orgasm by shinnying up the monkey bars/swing-set beam/gym rope. It made for a very surreal experience the first time I tried to masturbate on purpose. Of course I had consciously and purposefully gone out to the jungle gym in the playground for the sole purpose of experiencing the rather pleasant sensations that I had accidentally discovered, I just had no idea that the sensation I was experiencing was an orgasm and that I had in fact already been masturbating since I was 8.
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Old 12-22-2008, 08:22 PM
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I hope you cleaned up after yourself man.
I'm sure the pool guy was thrilled beyond belief. GAK!
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Old 10-07-2013, 06:21 AM
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Technique

Like those with the rope and monkey bars I too have experienced it also around 8 or 9
I was climbing the swings bar to get to the top and sit there when i felt it,then I came
I would hang in my closet and do it.also,then hang from the deck, and so forth,
What it comes down to it you hang using your arms and upper body, then you lift your legs and by lifting your legs up and down you create a pumping motion and you bleep going until you achieve orgasm, and it usually is a big load also it is intense and it works your abs out too.
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Old 10-07-2013, 06:35 AM
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A five year old TMI thread. Great.
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Old 10-07-2013, 07:59 AM
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Possible TMI. Possible?
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Old 10-07-2013, 08:55 AM
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I didn't know zombies could even have orgasms. I thought they'd be a little dead down there.
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Old 10-07-2013, 09:24 AM
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I didn't know zombies could even have orgasms. I thought they'd be a little dead down there.
since most men are accused of thinking only with their 'little brains' -
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Old 10-07-2013, 10:02 AM
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I remember this OP from when it was fresh meat, and regretted not responding at the time. So here's an Anecdote, like it or not.

Do many bong hits. Put on Beethoven Symphony 7 conducted by Carlos Kleiber. Lie down between speakers. Commence rushing.

Enter first phase Movement III. Enter second phase Assai meno presto bar 149 (2:21 in vid). Peak at bar 207. Take off at bar 215. (Can't remember which repeat.)

A singular experience. Ah, to be young again...

FWI, the complete video of Kleiber conducting the Seventh is one of the most amazing documents of the century.
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Old 10-07-2013, 10:16 AM
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Leo Bloom, you have a good username/tagline combo for this thread.
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Old 10-08-2013, 03:03 AM
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I was about to post something, then realized I already had, almost 5 years ago.
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:40 PM
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Always meant to research this topic

I have had the ability to reach orgasm without touching myself but merely crossing my legs which creates pressure in that area and then focus on sexual things to the point where sometimes within 2 minutes and sometimes with much more time reach a climax..I always thought this was weird as I never heard of anyone else doing it but I am now 33 have 2 kids and a wife so here I am looking it up..Been doing it since I was 12... or so...........I did not even bother to look when this was posted but I thought i wanted to write something about it...Does it mean anything or is it just like whatever....I mean could this type of focusing be used for other things beside sexual stuff??
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Old 03-24-2014, 04:55 PM
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zombie orgasm or no

video documentation is required to be convincing.
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Old 03-24-2014, 05:28 PM
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As far as zombie threads go, this one serves a useful purpose. I'm sure there are millions of people around the world who experience this and haven't a clue whether it's just them or if it's a normal thing.
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Old 03-24-2014, 06:01 PM
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I see no reason to close this, so no more need to report it.
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Old 03-24-2014, 08:31 PM
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I see no reason to close this, so no more need to report it.
Come on!
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Old 03-24-2014, 10:30 PM
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I for one am happy that this thread was ressurected. I found it very intriguing...

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Old 03-25-2014, 07:10 AM
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I for one am happy that this thread was ressurected.
I think perhaps you meant re-erected.
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Old 03-25-2014, 07:52 AM
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I think perhaps you meant re-erected.
yeah - and I wasn't even thinking about it when it happened!
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Old 03-25-2014, 02:39 PM
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So now, to go with pan fried semen, we have an example of slow boiled semen.

Food Channel, here we cum!
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Old 03-25-2014, 02:45 PM
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You people never disappoint.
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Old 03-25-2014, 03:20 PM
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I've been able to have them in bed, face and |) ! ( |< 'up' (nothing to stimulate it physically) if I had a sufficient 'soul tie' to a sufficiently sexual member of the opposite gender. Yes they can be very powerful and sometimes there is no option.

Enjoy

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Old 03-26-2014, 02:48 PM
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zombie orgasm or no

video documentation is required to be convincing.
That would be a damned interesting porn subgenre.
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Old 03-26-2014, 07:14 PM
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I think perhaps you meant re-erected.
Multiple orgasms!
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