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Old 03-17-2009, 09:46 PM
Superfluous Parentheses Superfluous Parentheses is offline
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Feet, or: what? I'm a freak?!

I like women's feet. I like all kinds of different body parts, but I also think feet are pretty sexy. Especially with painted nails.

As far as I can tell this isn't particularly uncommon - but apparently, liking feet is commonly regarded as weird or something. I'm not really bothered by that, but I am curious: what's wrong with feet?

ps: "foot jobs" turn me off.
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Old 03-17-2009, 10:01 PM
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The way I see it...

Feet are a relatively small and innocuous part of the body, and if a female keeps her feet hot, than she cares about the rest of it. (Plus you can usually see a girls feet before her boobs etc.)

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Old 03-17-2009, 10:04 PM
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So instead of being a leg man, you're a foot man. I don't think it's weird, unless it's gotten to the point of fetish.
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Old 03-17-2009, 10:35 PM
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As a foot man myself, I can testify that it's a taste that is somewhat unstylish right now. It implies a certain cravenness, which doesn't go well with the way men are construed as heterosexual beings today. It's also somewhat unsanitary and slightly transgressive, but not enough to be considered exciting or daring.
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Old 03-17-2009, 10:52 PM
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As far as I can tell this isn't particularly uncommon - but apparently, liking feet is commonly regarded as weird or something. I'm not really bothered by that, but I am curious: what's wrong with feet?
I don't think of it as "wrong" but I think it's a little weird just as I would someone hot 'n bothered about elbows or shoulderblades. Nothing "wrong" with it, but it's nothing I can wrap my mind around and get behind. They're feet. We've all got 'em and they don't hold up well (in my opinion) to concentrated viewing.

I'm not posting to crap on your happy interests. You seemed to be soliciting opinions from non-foot admirers.

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Old 03-17-2009, 10:58 PM
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I don't think of it as "wrong" but I think it's a little weird just as I would someone hot 'n bothered about elbows or shoulderblades. Nothing "wrong" with it, but it's nothing I can wrap my mind around and get behind. They're feet. We've all got 'em and they don't hold up well (in my opinion) to concentrated viewing.
Well, we've all got lips and hair and legs and badonkadonks, and no one is particularly troubled by people getting excited by those parts of a person of the desired sex.

One other neat thing about feet (women's anyway) is that they're the most public of erogenous zones, and often given care that makes them quite presentable for just this reason.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:00 PM
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Do you foot guys really like shoes, too, or is that a separate thing?
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:13 PM
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I have small feet but they're like little bricks. I have a guy on my LiveJournal that has a foot fetish and when I showed him my feet, he said "no thanks" which made me laugh and laugh.

Not all feet are cute!
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:13 PM
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Feet are hard and knobby. It'd be like preferring the bark of a tree to its flowers.

There's nothing innately wrong about it, it just seems a trifle peculiar.
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Old 03-17-2009, 11:31 PM
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Do you foot guys really like shoes, too, or is that a separate thing?
Depends. They can be very erotic or they can be very prudish.
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Old 03-18-2009, 12:06 AM
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So what do you do with the feet, if footjobs turn you off? Just look at them?
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Old 03-18-2009, 09:13 AM
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So what do you do with the feet, if footjobs turn you off? Just look at them?
You can stroke or rub or kiss someone's feet (if they are clean).

I like feet as well, but since I primarily date men, that can be iffy, as most men have ugly feet that are not well-cared for.
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Old 03-18-2009, 09:15 AM
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It's harmless, but it's still weird. Its also TMI.
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Old 03-18-2009, 09:50 AM
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I like ankles. Even I think that's weird.
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Old 03-18-2009, 09:58 AM
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I have small feet but they're like little bricks. I have a guy on my LiveJournal that has a foot fetish and when I showed him my feet, he said "no thanks" which made me laugh and laugh.
Like... bricks? As in reddish and good for breaking windows? Or cuboid?
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Old 03-18-2009, 10:34 AM
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I hate shoes. I think I have attractive feet, and I swear with how often I draw characters barefoot (or characters that never wear shoes at all) somebody is going to think I have a foot fetish. I don't, I just like feet. They're interesting looking, like hands, and it's fun to walk barefoot.
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Old 03-18-2009, 11:52 AM
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It is unusual, but I don't think there is anything freakish about liking feet unless that is the only thing about women that you are physically attracted to. I think it only gets freakish if it makes you do something antisocial like attack women in the park and steal their shoes.
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Old 03-18-2009, 12:31 PM
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While I am not in to feet, I have been more attracted to a woman because of her feet. I have been attracted to a woman solely because of her feet (no pun intended). And I have been less attracted because of them, although that is not a dealbreaker.
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Old 03-18-2009, 12:36 PM
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Its not that unusual, I guess. I'm not particularly into feet but I guess a woman with some kinds of high-heel shoes is sexy. I think this is because I've had women complain how uncomfortable 'sexy' shoes are- if they are willing to suffer in them then there is a good reason

I made a post a while back pondering the connection between male foot fetishists and women's own personal obsession with feet. If you think about it, it makes perfect sense that some men are obsessed with women's feet since women often obsess about their ownfeet. This, and the fact that I have never heard of a female foot fetishist.
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Old 03-18-2009, 12:42 PM
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As far as I can tell this isn't particularly uncommon - but apparently, liking feet is commonly regarded as weird or something. I'm not really bothered by that, but I am curious: what's wrong with feet?
Some cultures regard feet as unclean because they walk on the ground through any dirt or nastiness that happens to be there (if you consider how cities used to lack sewers and the way trash and animal waste used to just be thrown out anywhere this makes some sense). Some people don't take care of their feet so they're dirty, calloused, nails dirty, nails broken, etc. Some people just don't like feet.

But hey, if you like feet you like feet, nothing wrong with that it's just your preference.
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Old 03-18-2009, 01:19 PM
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I hear ya. The weird thing with me (well, one of many) is that my thing for women's feet just kind of landed in my lap out of nowhere, practically overnight. I never paid any particular attention to feet (men's, women's, mine...), but one summer in my mid-twenties I was frequently bored while riding the El to and from work. So I daydreamed while staring at the floor. And then gradually started noticing the feet on the floor. And well, it was summer, so lots of women were wearing sandals.

So during that summer I suddenly started finding women's feet, strappy heels, and high-heeled boots really sexy. Up to that point I didn't give any thought to feet or high-heels at all, then suddenly I wanted to wear them, and see them, in spite of myself. Can't explain it. That was also when I realized I had a thing for (TMI)

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pony tack... I think it looks really sexy, although I'm not in any way into pony play as a mental pretend-to-be-a-pony thing. This developed practically overnight just like the shoe/boot/foot thing did, and I think it's related to boots, since when worn under flared pants, high-heeled boots make the foot look kinda-sorta like a hoof. Perhaps also to the sandals, given it's the strappy-ness of the sandals and the tack that looks so sexy; so straps on the foot, straps across the chest, straps across the face, all good. And yeah, even I think that's weird.


Oddly, perhaps, men's feet do nothing for me. Not even if dressed up in strappy sandals. And for me, it's about looking and appreciating the lines, curves, angles. Foot massages, foot worship, or anything like that kind of squicks me out. I wouldn't want to touch your feet unless you were literally right out of the shower. And had specifically soaped them up for me. And even then it's foot massages only.

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This, and the fact that I have never heard of a female foot fetishist.
Now you have. Although in a lot of regards I suspect I'm wired much like a guy, at least in terms of my visual orientations towards sexiness. Most of what I find visually appealing is all about women. Men have more subtle qualities that I appreciate.

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Depends. They can be very erotic or they can be very prudish.
Even prudish shoes can be hot. Sexy librarian in cute Mary Janes? Yum.
Sometimes it's more about the mystery than what you see.

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Old 03-18-2009, 01:25 PM
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Incubus:

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I'm not particularly into feet but I guess a woman with some kinds of high-heel shoes is sexy
That's hardly odd; high heels force a posture that emphasizes the curve of the legs. While I'm sure foot-lovers could enjoy high heels, they are mainly for the consumption of leg men.
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Old 03-18-2009, 01:30 PM
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That's hardly odd; high heels force a posture that emphasizes the curve of the legs. While I'm sure foot-lovers could enjoy high heels, they are mainly for the consumption of leg men.
Nah, it's for both. The forced posture also emphasizes the arch of the foot. Sexy sexy sexy.
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Old 03-18-2009, 10:34 PM
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I hAve a full on foot fetish no doubt about it. I react to womens feet the same way most Men react to tits and ass. Yes I like footjobs and prefer feet in nylons. If you feel wierd now you should try the OTHER part of my fetish. I like women to walk on my frontside!
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Old 03-18-2009, 10:36 PM
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Fucking Cubs fans, they're all crazy.
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Old 03-18-2009, 11:21 PM
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Like... bricks? As in reddish and good for breaking windows? Or cuboid?
My foot is on the left. See? How did I get fat toes!?!?
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Old 03-19-2009, 03:29 AM
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I like em too. I don't think of them as erogenous zones, per se. I think of it more like admiring a really nice car, or seeing a painting that moves you, or artfully tasteful pinups that are sexy, but not sexual.
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Old 03-19-2009, 11:50 AM
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Women must be at some level aware of men's attraction to their feet, just look at the impractical styles of their shoes. Most of "women's" shoes show off a lot of skin and display the toes in various ways. They are designed to show them off.

Is there not a line in the bible from a man saying something like, "How lovely are your feet in sandals." Song of Songs? So this goes back a long way.

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Old 03-19-2009, 03:21 PM
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It's harmless, but it's still weird. Its also TMI.
I think that's the most important point you can make. It's more information than you should share with the vast majority of people. It's like saying "I'm totally into anal!". Completely harmless, but not something you should share with very many people. On the other hand, if you're being intimate with a woman and she's totally and utterly grossed out by your interest in her feet she probably has the sexual maturity of a 14 year old. It's really really tame as far as perversions go.
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Old 03-19-2009, 08:43 PM
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Do you foot guys really like shoes, too, or is that a separate thing?
I'm not particularly interested in shoes. Although I dislike really high heels. Not that I wear them
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