I literally cannot believe what I just heard from a few other people. Some people think that 75 PERCENT of whether or not a girl wants to be with you is based on SEX. WHAT ON EARTH? Is that serious? Because really, what percent of the time are you actually having sex in a love relationship? I mean I can understand LOOKS, and PERSONALITY, but to say sex is 75% of the relationship is like saying looks is only 12.5% and personality is only 12.5%. That’s BIZARRE.
It’s like sexual compatibility is mostly what people care about these days and it’s so sad. This probably also explains the utterly pathetic divorce rate in america: around 50% (I don’t know the exact number). Seriously, that’s as good as we can do? Wow! So you’re telling me that 1 in 2 relationships FAIL!
And I notice it happening in western countries more often too.
But what blew my mind was when people thought it was weird that a 16 year old wouldn’t have sex. Seriously, 16? That’s extremely young. I wouldn’t even think about that until my mid-20’s, or more accurately, until marriage! It’s a severe sin in some religions to have sex before marriage (I believe in one of those!) CRITICAL READ Don’t criticize me for being against sex before marriage, that’s a different story, but it’s safe to assume that what I mean is sex before the age of 21 (that should be the lowest sex age because do you really think that college freshmen are mature enough to be having sex?)
I understand, sex feels good. Don’t argue that and also don’t make assumptions that, “Hey you’re just saying that because you can’t get any sex!” I have parents’ rules and religion to comply with, and even if I didn’t, I would still think a it’s ridiculous idea to be going for sex at such a young age.
I can’t believe that sexual compatibility causes millions of break-ups. Well then that’s not true love. If sexual incompatibility is enough to set off a relationship, then that wasn’t a relationship in the FIRST PLACE. In my opinion, you need a lot more than sexual compatibility in a relationship, and honestly, it only fits for 5% of the criteria. And come on, there’s always kissing/making out! In fact, I value the kissing/making out part for 10% because you do it much more often than just sex. The rest 85% is personality/behavior and looks. And honestly, if they get a “0” on sex and kissing, they would still have an excellent chance of being with me. Like I said, I’m not sexually demanding. I know it takes A HECK OF A LOT MORE than being “good” at sex (what’s that even supposed to mean; how are you “good” at sex?)
