Would you date the child of a pair of serial killers?

Yes, it’s a hypothetical with a longish storytelling OP and possibly a poll, depending on my mood when I hit submit. If you don’t like these, why are you still reading? Surely there’s a World Series thread open somewhere, or perhaps something about Grand Theft Auto. Anyhoo…

Let’s say you’re single and have recently met Sam Milhone, who, as usual for these hypotheticals, seems perfect : attractive, smart, funny, solvent, and most of all warm for your form. You’ve known one another for three months and been dating for two, but are not cohabiting; the sex is great.

Everything’s been going swimmingly until the last week. Sam has been getting calls from various unknown persons; each time Sam hangs up on almost immediately. One day y’all are out for lunch when y’all are approached by a person you recognize as a tv reporter; as soon as the reporter identifies himself, Sam says "The answer to whatever question you have is ‘Eat shit and die.’ " Once the reporter retreats, you ask what’s going on. Sighing, Sam says:

“Milhone isn’t the last name I was born with. I was born Sam Silverman. I’m the biological child of Edmund Silverman and Susan Spenser, a pair of serial killers who murdered dozens before they were caught by the FBI, when I was six. Edmund was put to death almost immediately; Susan has been on death row for years and has finally exhausted all appeals. After the Silvermans were caught, my parents–well, technically, my biological aunt and her husband–Mom and Dad adopted me and changed my surname to theirs. Now that Susan’s date with the hangman is set, the cable news vultures want my reaction, but they can all go fuck themselves; my feelings are not for public consumption. Anyway, I don’t care what happens to Susan. I haven’t seen her since I was ten, and I hadn’t thought about her till CNN contacted me with the news of her impending execution and asked for a quote. The Silvermans are just an egg & sperm donor as far as I’m concerned. My real parents are Kinsey and Travis Milhone.”

The evening after you and Sam have this conversation, you Google “EDMUND SILVERMAN SUSAN SPENSER SERIAL KILLERS”. After an hour’s reading, three facts stands out. One, it was Sam’s same-sex parent who was the guiding force behind the murders; two, none of their killings seems to have had a sexual component; and three, well over half of the Silvermans’ victims (and all the ones they specifically targeted, as opposed to taking out for practical purposes) strongly resemble you–matching your race, sex, current age, and general appearance.

Does this revelation give you pause? Are you willing to continue the relationship with Sam? Why or why not?

I would be happy to keep dating Sam, assuming she didn’t exhibit signs of significant emotional disturbance about her parents actions and fate. If she’s dealing with it without too much baggage, I’m fine. I don’t think she inherited a mass killing gene.

Well, my husband’s parents were a nasty, angry abusive asshole and his abysmally stupid, if well-meaning, enabler of a wife. My husband exhibits none of these traits, except the well-meaning part. Sure, I would have dated Sam and not worried overmuch.

ETA: lemon cheesecake!

Well, upsetting her by breaking things off might not be a great idea.

I want chocolate! You couldn’t have put Hawk in the story somewhere?

StG

I was thinking “who cares” until the last little tidbit. Yeah no, that is a deal breaker.

No, there are plenty of fish in the sea without dealing the the baggage associated with that type of thing. My family has plenty of crazy in it already. I don’t think they would appreciate me dragging in some competition even by proxy.

You want a TRIO of serial killers?

Anyway, you get the first twelve out of the next batch of double-chocolate-chip cookies for being the first to mention that bit.

Because … ?

Regarding the last detail - when I was still dating, I was in my 20’s, white, female, reasonably pretty, and lived alone so that puts me fairly likely to be in a random serial killer’s demographic. Still not a deal-breaker.

No, I wouldn’t. I’d be concerned about a few things:

  1. There’s evidence that psychopathy is partly heritable. Psychopaths are often able to put up a facade of being normal, charismatic, etc. until suddenly they aren’t. Maybe Sam isn’t like that, but I’d probably never stop secretly wondering and worrying about it and our kids. Not fair to either of us to live like that.

  2. I’d be concerned about the parents getting accidentally paroled or escaping or something, like those guys in Florida that were just re-captured. Or Ted Bundy.

  3. I’d be concerned about victims’ family members deciding to bother Sam and me out of mis-targeted grief or rage.

Sam sounds like a hoot and a half, sure I’d keep dating her

Bonus: If you have a baby boy together, his nickname can be

Son of Sam

“No worries, honey, that doesn’t bother me. Let’s never speak of this again. Now, to change the subject, have I ever shown you this list of people who really get on my nerves? Oh and did you notice that Al’s Handgun, Shovel, and Giant Plastic Bag Emporium is having a sale?”