I think there is no argument that the quiz is biased. But that doesn’t mean that HSP doesn’t exist.
I am an HSP. I cannot tell you what a relief it was to have some pyschologist somewhere (or perhaps just a health-issues reporter) come out several years with articles regarding this. True, the ones I read were all directed at parents of young kids, but I found many similarities between the kids’ profiles and myself. I used to think I was odd(and I am in some ways), but I never thought that there were others out there like me.
As pointed out, there are many types of sensitivities. I agree that it is incorrect to conflate them etc. The “doctor” doesn’t sound much of a scientist. Also, I will say that HSP incorporates alot of established personality traits–or seems to. Traits like introversion, shyness, “high strung-ness”, etc. It is a broader definition, and a more applicable one, IMO. If you think of sensitivity as a spectrum–HSP makes sense. I’m sure there is LSP out there as well.
I, too, cannot focus with loud music on–I will go farther and say that I cannot focus when ANY unfamiliar music is on. I have trouble shutting out background TV or conversations. I find it more than annoying–it is obstuctive to my ability to carry on my side of the conversation.
I cannot tolerate heat very well at all–I am uncomfortable at about 78. I cannot take too much pressure on my skin–and when it comes to sex, I cannot handle direct stimulation–I shut down. It is a huge turn off–and it is impossible to restart the engine right away, (so to speak). The lightest of touches will and does suffice most times.
Textures bother me–not as much as they used to. I was a very picky eater as a child, not because of the taste of things, per se, but the texture. I hated mushrooms as a kid–the flavor was fine, but it felt like I was eating the inside lining of my tennis shoe. I feel the hairs on the back of my arms rise if I brush velvet against the grain of the fabric(actually any fabric)–and I have to brush it the “correct” way to rid myself of the hair-rising reaction.
I can and do read the sublteties of people’s body language, tone and expression. I often summarize for people their own meandering thoughts and indentify the feelings underneath them. I am not big on psychics etc, and certainly do not claim that, but I do think that there are people who are very intuitive about others. On Meyers-Briggs, I am an INTJ.
Too much sun will give me a headache (and I mean the amount of sun you get from travelling in a car about 30 miles)–glare is especially troubling to me and I go nowhere without sunglasses. I may not wear them, but I need to have the option available.
I have arranged my life so that I have only episodic exposure to too much stimuli–I work part time as a nurse-- a job that has definetly exacerbated my sensitivity-which is one reason I only work part time. I have no music on at home or TV for “company”, either. I make sure that I have plenty of alone time in which to process the convos/meetings/interactions/trips downtown etc in solitude.
Believe me, if I could live another way, I would. I have tried–it is too exhausting. I like people and I like to do things–but I know my limits and respect them.
Now, you may call BS on all of this. All I can say is that you cannot know how if feels to literally feel assaulted by verbal/tactile stimuli on a daily basis. I realize that everyone else seems to be tootling alone just fine. I am not asking for anyone to stop or even consider my issues. I am just relating my perspective.
Actually, the internet has been a great boon to me. (Christ, I probably sound like a freak of nature now)–but it has allowed me to have intense conversations w/o the bombardment of all the other stimuli involved in face to face encounters. I do enjoy those, too, but hit overload much sooner.