Not sure where you are getting that.
The police seem unusually willing to offer speculation about the girls motive and state of mind. They’ve pretty openly said that the suspected motive is her frustration and depression over financial troubles (probably exasperated by the DUI) and the rumor that McNair was having an affair with a different woman and intended to end things with her.
I’ve seen very little that indicates that McNair ever said anything about leaving his wife aside from the story that Kazemi told her parents, which is of dubious quality.