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How do you determine what socioeconomic "class" a person is in?
In another thread, it was asked what the difference between middle and upper class was with respect to tax brackets and income levels. Rather than hijack that thread, I am started a new one to discuss the following questions:
-What defines what "class" a person belongs to? -How do you identify a persons class when you meet them? -How easy/difficult is it to move between classes? -What are some of the barriers to moving between classes? -Is it even relevant in American society? In other words, is there so much blending between classes and income brackets that it is essentially as irrelevant as the color of the shirt I put on this morning? I have my own thoughts on the matter but I would like to see how people respond first. I also hope BrainGlutton chooses to post his excerpt from Class: A Guide to the American Status System, by Paul Fussell again. |
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The same Paul Fussell says that you can identify the classes by the types of hats they wear. I don't wear hats, which puts me sqarely in the middle class, right above the "proles" (in Fussell's terminology).
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Fussell also seemed to fail to realize that the Official Preppy Handbook is supposed to be satirical (I least I hope so..it's pretty silly). |
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Good question - Fussell's book is definitely a fun read...
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This is relevant because I think many people base their impressions on whether someone is of their class or not by the values/beliefs/attitudes they share (or don't share). I may have hit the lottery, but if I start "acting differently" then 1) those in my class - lower middle class - may accuse me of "putting on airs" and 2) those in the upper classes may deride me as "nouveau riche". Quote:
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The following is from Class: A Guide to the American Status System, by Paul Fussell (New York: Summit Books, 1983), pp. 27-50: Quote:
Even this fine-grained analysis might be too simplistic. For one thing, it ignores divisions between ethnic groups. A working-class black and a working-class white might work in similar occupations for similar incomes; but they grow up in different social environments, speak different dialects, attend different churches, listen to different music, socialize with circles of friends almost entirely of their own color, and almost certainly will marry (or, at any rate, reproduce) within their own race. The divisions are much less sharp than they were 20 years ago. (I know white kids who listen to rap and hip-hop, and who call each other "nigger" and "dog" as terms of affection, and whose closest friends and romantic interests are as likely to be black as white.) But they're still there. Are the white prole and the black prole in the same "class"? In 10 or 20 years, maybe; today, no, IMO. They both occupy the same horizontal layer of the social pyramid but there is a vertical line of separation between them. Perhaps a better question to ask is whether Fussell's analysis is dated. In noting the death of the American lower middle class due to economic forces in the 1960s and '70s, Fussell acknowledged a society's class structure can change significantly in a short period of time. And his book dates from 1983. How well does it describe the America of 2004? |
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Another insightful analysis -- albeit one limited to the upper strata -- is provided by Michael Lind in The Next American Nation (New York: Free Press Paperbacks, 1996), pp. 141-145:
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Just look at people of the same economic level...they differ radically within their own 'class' level. A Hispanic on the west coast has radically different attitudes than a black making the same amount on the east coast...or a white making the same amount in the south. Hell, two Hispanic’s making the same amount differ if one lives in the South West and one lives in the North East. 'Class', as far as in America, is IMO basically a meaningless term...just like 'race' is. It’s a hold over (in the US) from earlier times. There ARE no real 'races'...and in the US there really isn't a homogenous 'class'. Wealthy people on the East Coast are a hell of a lot different in their attitudes, politics, priorities, etc, than a wealthy person in the South West, the North West, the West Coast, etc. Hell, even on the East Coast you have wealthy liberals and wealthy conservatives...and they are pretty radically different in more ways than just their politics. -XT |
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The easiest way to determine an individual's social class is by rolling 2d10:
01-10 Lower Lower Class 11-20 Middle Lower Class 21-30 Upper Lower Class 31-45 Lower Middle Class 46-70 Middle Middle Class 71-85 Upper Middle Class 86-95 Lower Upper Class 96-99 Middle Upper Class 00 Upper Upper Class Piece of cake! |
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If it wasn't for low class,
I wouldn't have no class at all... I just look at the type of vehicle the person drives. That tells me everything I need to know. |
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No, he can't, x, not without getting a whole lot of rare lucky breaks. And if he does get the same education, he still can't do all the same things with it a rich white can. Connections and the "old boy network" still count for a lot, And white skin privilege still exists. A white hillbilly who gets a good education, works hard, gets rich, and moves into an expensive condo complex is accepted by his new neighbors as one of them. A black from the projects who does the same is still just a nigger in a Jaguar. That's how it is. For now. |
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msmith: -How easy/difficult is it to move between classes?
-What are some of the barriers to moving between classes? xt: Even economic it’s pretty easy to move between classes in the US. Insofar as "class" means "income level" (and other people have done a good job of pointing out some of the differences between those categories), the answer seems to be that it's easier to move between classes in the US than in many other places, but it's harder than it used to be. An article in Business Week in 2003 discussed some of the issues of America's declining income mobility: Quote:
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Whew! For awhile I thought I was just common upper-middle class! I would say that the most visible differences in class can be seen in higher education. For one, it is the oldest point in most peoples life where they have not been forced to make their own way in the world yet, so they are still very much defined by how they were raised. Secondly, education itself somewhat defines a persons "class". Thirdly, for many people, it is the first time they have been forced to mingle with people of different backgrounds. One thing I noticed in college was how quickly people who grew up in the same class identified each other, even though on the surface, there is very little outward difference in appearance (in all fairness, my school was rather homogenius anyway with most of the student body ranging from middle class to wealthy). "Oh we went to the same summer camp in Massachusettes", "You went to Choate? Yeah we played you in lacross.", "Your family has a house in Spring Lake? Sorry East Hampton." Probably the biggest barrier between classes is attitude toward wealth and prosperity. Lower classes will wear shirts with a giant POLO logo in 6 inch letters across the back like a NASCAR sponser while upper classes wear the more subdued classic horse logo on the breast pocket. My girlfriend went to college a few miles away from my school. While similar, her school was definitely skewed more to the Middle Class. The student body, while coming from families with similar incomes, tended to travel shorter distances to go to school there and tended to stay closer upon graduating. They viewed people from my school as a bunch of rich arrogant alchoholic druggies like characters out of a Bret Easton Ellis book or something. Of course we had a lot of them too. On the other hand, my school was not in the same class as the Harvards and Princetons of the world. As for how much class matters, probably not that much. My girlfriends family runs the entire specrum of the socioecomic latter. Her parents aren't very wealthy and live in a rural area while her cousin is part owner of a Major League baseball team. And she has aunts and uncles and cousins all in between -lawyers, high school soccer coaches, what have you. Anyhow I have to go eat. More thoughts later |
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hhmmm... lets go to the nitty gritty of class discrimination:
1st - Check out the shoes. Bad shoes are a give away. 2nd - Overall clothes check. Good quality and good taste ? Belts especially. 3rd - Wrist watch... a good and fancy watch might mean some economic power. Too flashy might mean a "noveau riche". 4th - Teeth. More money means better dentist work and getting teeth fixed. 5th - Overall demeanor and posture. 6th Now depending on the country you'd check out skin color... and during conversation cultural references and general culture, and age. I'm not going to be politically correct about this topic. We all "measure" people all the time. Even if I don't want to label someone... I see the give away details that mark someone as lower middle class in Brazil quite easily for example. I also figure out when someone is rich... but they weren't born so. Education and culture also determine "class" a lot. You'd be surprised how people determine "class" during conversation. The higher the class... the more educated you might have to be... and the interests might be different too. I've never played golf... so I doubt I'd be able to mingle with the CEO crowd for example. I couldn't keep up with a much younger group either talking about computer games. Music tastes too point out class. University education in Brazil isn't as widespread as in the US for example... and interest in politics isn't that common outside of these circles. Getting a higher education in Brazil means being in the 3-4% group. |
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To answer the question in a market research context, there is a standard socio-economic classification system, also known as social grade.
In Britain, the standard classification system is A, B, C1, C2, D, E - all a bit Brave New World. Essentially, an individual is graded according to his/ her income band and profession (or the houshold's income and main breadwinner's profession). As a bishop, or bishop's spouse, you get A status even if you have no or little income. I don't know if the system is exactly the same in the US. However, researchers on both sides of the Atlantic often look at data analysed by education level and pure income group as well as this socio-economic dimension. Another system used by marketers is entirely based on neighbourhood. These systems were developed because the six-way social grade system was felt to be too crude, and because they are suited to direct mail campaigns. All the neighbourhoods in a country are classified into clusters - 36 in the system I have seen. One example of a cluster might be inner city/ high density housing/ middle income/ small households/ high proportion of retired people. However, the distinction between old money and new money is normally overlooked in these systems. |
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I find class differences to be a fascinating subject: here in NE, we have a very entrenched class of "Old Mone" people. These folks have been rich so long that they have no need to display their affluence. They live in drafty old houses, which are usually decaying. They also dress conservatively, and drive older american cars (no $300,000- Maybach sedans for them). They send their kids to prep schools, and prefer tastless, mushy kinds of food (like brown bread and baked beans).
And, they are exceedingly cheap..one old Bostonian family lady was once complemented on her choice of hats..she was asked where she bought them. To this she replied: "we don't buy them, we have them"! |
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My company is an 8A...thats a small business minority owned. We get special contracts from the government (until my company 'graduates' at least). My education was payed for by 3 Hispanic American grants (non-government...which I've donated too myself now so MORE hispanics can get a good educations), as well as a government veterans education benifit from my time in service...and some student loans (yes, white bankers WILL grant loans to poor hispanics). Not to say that the field is completely level today, or that prejudice has completely been eliminated (of course, that works on all sides)...but I think you are living in the past. We've moved on mostly from that kind of attitude. If someone wants it, be they black, brown, yellow red OR white...its there for them to take, if the person is willing to put in the work and make the sacrifices to do it. Its no longer the case where I, as an immigrant hispanic need to sit hat in hand waiting for the great white masters to provide. Sorry for the speech...this subject obviously burns me up a bit. Also, my anger isn't directed at YOU necessarily BG. -XT |
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If I were a billionare, I would probably use $50,000 BMWs like toilet paper, basically just leaving them wherever and grabbing one when I need it. I think that one of the trappings of class is that you try to emulate how you think the upper classes SHOULD dress and act. At my girlfriends "middle class" college, girls would get up an hour early to put on makeup and do their hair before class. At my more elite school, girls and boys just show up wearing the same sweatpants they wore to bed and a ratty baseball cap. It seems a persons class is also defined by the expectations set on them. A Harvard grad might be stressed about his grades because his families expectations of becoming a lawyer or bankers. Or he might not care since his family has money so he's just going to go study some BS major and go to Europe for the summer because he knows his dad will get him a job at Merryl anyway. A middle class college student might feel the same pressures but for different reasons. We used to joke about the wealthy fraternity next door to us during parents weekend. "Dear Hunter, your new mom and I are having a great time in Aspen. Sorry we couldn't make your little school thing. Here's $5000 to tide you over." People's class tends to cross wealth barriers because 1) most of us want to "fit in", not stand out like Mr. Burns from the Simpsons or the poor kid from some OC or 90210 type show and 2) we take on the mannerisms of the class we are predominantly exposed to so outsiders soon see us that way. Example, if I were wealthy and lived in a small town, I would not want to stand out as the town millionare. I would live comfortibly but not oestantatiously. On the other hand, I would probably live in Manhattan where such wealth is not a big deal. |
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BG: One point Lind made was that the feminist revolution has had the unexpected effect of making social mobility between generations more difficult. [...] In terms of gender equity this is a good thing, but it tends to freeze class lines.
It's also helped obscure the full impact of reduced economic mobility. Poor and low-income families would be even worse off than they are if they didn't have so many two-job (or three- or four-job) couples. We tend to focus on the positive aspects of having more women in the workforce (women's liberation, autonomy, gender equity and so forth) and to gloss over the less-positive fact that without working wives, most lower-income men would no longer be able to support their families. xt: If someone wants it, be they black, brown, yellow red OR white...its there for them to take, if the person is willing to put in the work and make the sacrifices to do it. I see what you're saying, and I completely applaud your determination to improve your situation, and your success at it. However, we need to consider not just what's possible for the occasional unusually talented or dedicated individual, but what's possible for most of the members of a certain class. It's not enough just to say that anybody can accomplish what you did if they make up their minds to it and work hard enough. We also have to ask, is the system set up so that most people can accomplish what you did? And I think the evidence, particularly the data on declining social mobility, makes it clear that the answer is "no". Our economy is fundamentally dependent on the assumption that lots of people are going to work hard but still stay poor. That's how we get our cheap fruits and vegetables and clothing and services: because we are counting on most of the working poor, even if they're competent and industrious, not to do better for themselves, so they will still need our low wages. It's kind of like when they say that "anybody can win the lottery." It's absolutely true that anybody (who buys a ticket) can win the lottery. But it's equally true that the whole lottery system is structurally dependent on the statistical certainty that most people won't win the lottery. Any random individual can be a winner, but the success of the system depends on having many more losers than winners. |
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Note, however, he identifies this behavior as being characteristic of the true middle-middle class. Upper middles are more carefree and casual. [/quote] Quote:
We were never pressured to take "practical" majors, though. |
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Another anecdote: Jackie Kennedy's grandparents (the Auchinloss family) were OLDE NE money. They would unplug their refridgerator at the first frost in the fall, and move their perishables to the front porch! This probably saved them a few dollars in electricity!
I have also attended class reunions at Harvard..some of those old geezers were wearing their GRANDFATHER's clothes! |
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And I'm not saying I want our poor citizens and our nonwhites to be "given" things by their white masters. Quite the contrary. I want them to earn higher social status and prosperity -- not by admirable individual effort alone, as you have done, but also by collective efforts, and by using the power of the vote and the power of organizing! I want them to take the things to which they are entitled as Americans! |
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Relevant to the above, here's another quote from Lind's Next American Nation:
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BTW: By "liberating the hereditary poor," Lind means liberating them, one family at a time, from poor neighborhoods, getting them out of that socially dysfunctional environment. That could boil the blood of a lot of black and Latino Americans, who might see it as an effort to destroy their community and culture. I say, so fucking what? The best model, the best success story, for beneficial integration of an ethnocultural minority into American society, is the Jews. There was a time when there were de facto Jewish ghettos and Jewish crime gangs in America (Dutch Schultz, Meyer Lansky, etc.), but that's all in the past. Today, the Jews are mostly prosperous, well-educated, and entirely assets to our society and economy. And you'll find Jews everywhere you go. But the "Jewish-American community" is now a very vague and attenuated thing, like the Irish-American community and the Italian-American community. Outside a few major cities, how many Jewish neighborhoods are left in America? They still have their own religion and some attenuated aspects of their Old World Ashkenazi culture, they still marry predominantly among themselves, but other than that, they're completely culturally assimilated. That's the goal our black and Latino citizens, and all white people who give a shit about them, should be striving for: A future America where there are plenty of black and Latino people everywhere, and practically no black or Latino neighborhoods anywhere! (And no poor white neighborhoods, either!) You may now commence screaming about "cultural genocide." |
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In his classic treatise on consumer behaviour (THE THEORY OF THE LEISURE CLASS), economist Thorstein Veblen analyzed the consuming behavior of vatious claases of people. Even though the book was written in the 1890's it is still valid today. Take the rich people's preoccupation with expensive activities like polo, yachting, affairs with beautiful women, etc. all of thse activities demonstrate "I am better than you are" because they:
-are expensive -involve special kinds of clothes -demand lots of leisure time Hence, these activities cannot be indulged in by the lower classes. THAT is the main reason that the rich like them. Now, if you are an old money guy (Lowell Cabot Winthrop XII), you don't give a hoot about all this..heck, you might even eat hot dogs and drink with the help! :wally |
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My wife, a nice Upper Middle Jewish girl from Manhattan, went to college at Smith. It was quite an eye-opening experience to interact on a day-to-day basis with the children of the old money East Coast establishment. Yes, they're not as WASPy as they were 50 years ago -- they've allowed a trickle of Jews and Irish Catholics into the club. But they're still far more white bread than the country as a whole. |
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If you've tricked it out in any way, High Prole. |
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Naw, Pravnik must be old school (when d100 were not in existence yet), we used 2d10's (either different colors, or the digits were different colors) and one d10 always represented the tens, and the other d10 was the units.....therefore 01-00(100) was the range. </old geeky nitpick> |
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I consider upper-middle to be basically the people who work in those professions and have achieved a certain level of success. Own their nice house in the right neighborhood. Owned or leased Volvos and BMWs and whatnot. Lawyers, some doctors who don't make as much, professors, sr mangers in large companies. Maybe income in the $70-200k range depending on where you live. Usually pretty good to top schooling. Right clothes with the right labels. Just enough money to be a little arrogant. Middle class, I consider school teachers, nurses, well paid tradesmen like plumbers or electricians. $45k jobs. Basically nth tier or state schools. Beater cars or sensible Saturns Joe sixpacks and soccer moms. Generic sub-division living. Generic or non-label versions of UMC affectations. Generally likeable but lacking a certain worldliness. Lower middle class - Low level corporate jobs - call center operators or admins. Struggle to make ends meet. State schools or community college. Over inflated sense of the worth of money ($10k is considered a LOT of money). Working class - Basically working poor. People in low level jobs like fast food, sanitation, non-transient restaurant workers (IOW, waiters who are not students home for the summer). Basically living paycheck to paycheck. Destitute poor - Basically the poorest of the poor. Now upper middle class and above is where it starts to get interesting. It's kind of like being a partner in a law firm. Yeah all the partners make the big money compared to the scrubs billing 100 hour weeks, but there are all kinds of levels within levels. Basically the UMCs, work for the UCs. If they work hard, they might be UCs themselves. He's your boss with the $2M home in Greenwich, CT while you are busting your ass pulling all-nighters. He's a pretty wealthy guy by any stretch of the imagination but he's griping because he only makes $400k a year. 28 year old kids on Wall Street are making that (actually quote by one of the partners at my old MC firm). Like Gorden Gecko says, he doesn't want to be "comfortible like some guy making $400k a year and flying first class", he wants to be "liquid". So wealthy he doesn't have to work again. So he makes some wise investments, becomes a senior partner, now he's worth about $5-10 M. That's pretty good money, but that doesn't make him a player in the really big leagues. Can't buy a Gulfstream jet with that kind of money. You aren't going to be dealing with the Trumps of the world for $5-10M. And none of them means anything to someone who has inherreted their millions already and have been living with it from birth. Anyhow you get the picture. Show me someone with $500 M and I'll show you a frustrated billionare. The whole idea of "high society" is fascinating for all its ridiculousness. My fraternity had some chapters in the South where social standing was a big deal. You had to come from the right families and it was all very elitist with corney regalias and balls and box-socials with carriages and flowers and fuck-knows what else. Give it up! You aren't on freakin Tara, Scarlett! Franky we don't give a damn! (Then again, we also had chapters that were borderline Klan and branded their letters on their arm so go figure) The whole purpose of making a shitload of money is so you can do what the fuck you want! Not to do what some throwbacks to the turn of the century tell you you should do! If you have that kind of money, you SHOULD be like the Trumps or Rupert Murdochs and just make gaudy 40 story gold plated buildings and crazy TV networks to piss off old money types! |
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The class recognizes you, not the other way around.
You dress, drive, read, and speak in a collection of ways that is acceptable to a statistical group, and together, you and that group become a class. If you need lots of money to dress, drive, read and speak like that, it’s a prestigious class, with a membership limited by means. If you can dress, drive, read and speak like that with means available to you on your own, it becomes part of the middle class. If you don't have to have money, then the matter of dress, ride, speech become very important, and highly mutable, so as to identify the true members of the class, and exclude pretenders. It's a statistical thing, mostly, viewed from the outside. From within, it is a matter of identity, and social turf. Tris --------------------------- "In my opinion, there's nothing in this world, Beats a '52 Vincent, and a red headed girl." ~ Richard Thompson ~ |
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Trying to mimic the tastes of a different class than your own -- that's pretense. And it applies both up and down the ladder. Actually living within your class isn't -- although it may appear that way to outsiders ... . The Upper Classes may be clanny and snooty, but they're not pretensious ... . |
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They're there ... . Seriously, if you're not a native, you're going to have a hard time picking up on the markers ... . |
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One of the great things about the movie Working Girl is how well it illuminates these class distinctions. Melanie Griffith's mid prole vs. Sigourney Weaver's upper mid. In the end Melanie Griffith winds up leaping into the middle class, but the final shot of her unpacking her stuff in her new cubicle is surprisingly bleak ... . |
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The two years I lived in New York as an adult I worked in advertising, and everyone I met through business was either Irish, Italian, Jewish, black or Latino - in other words, basic Americans. I didn't have much to do with CEOs, though, so you may be right, there. As for the Upper East Side, I assume you don't mean where I lived on 63rd & 3rd; you probably mean east of Lex. Well, everyone I personally knew with a view of the park was Jewish, but since they were mostly friends of my parents I can't tell you how representitive they were. |
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Look, I understand (probably better than you do) what an advantage it is to be affluent, to be able to give your kids a leg up. I also understand the inertia of the barrio and whats comfortable and familiar...and 'safe'. MY kids, for example, go to better grade schools than I did and have more oppurtunities than I did...we live in the suburbs of a large city, in a very nice section of town with good public schools. And I do a lot of volunteer work at Charter Schools (i.e. poor Hispanic and Native American schools) throughout New Mexico so I see first hand what the poor kids of today have and don't have as far as oppurtunities goes in education. They have more than you think they do...and more than the majority of them take advantage of unfortunately. My kids are definitely starting off from a much higher point, with more resources behind them...so, at least in theory, their futures SHOULD be brighter than mine. But what you don't understand is what its like in another country...like Mexico. You probably understand in your mind...but you don't REALLY get it in your gut. Hell, I'm practically a fanatic about America because of the things its done for me and my family. My POINT though, was just because you are poor doesn't mean you have to stay at the bottom...in America at least. Just because you are poor doesn't mean you CAN'T get a good education...ESPECIALLY if you are a minority. The fact that not everyone (hell, not many) people take the government and the various private ethnic organizations and grants up on it...well, I'm not going to say its all their fault, but I'm not going to categorically excuse them either...as you seem to be doing. I was there. The programs were there for those who were willing to take advantage of them...and I did. There is NOTHING preventing others from doing exactly what I did. It wasn't 'luck' as you said...it was me being willing to put in the effort to DO it, to find out whats out there and take advantage. Anyway, I feel like I'm ranting at this point and hijacking this thread. My appologies to everyone...I get worked up abut this stuff and should stay out of the 'class' threads in the future. ![]() -XT |
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I'm a solidly credentialed haute-WASP. I'm an Eastern Seaboard Episcopalian, christened in The National Cathedral in Washington. My family first lived in New York when it was still New Amsterdam back in 1665. I drive an Oldsmobile. Blah, blah, blah.
I will revel the secret of how we tell who is 'one of us.' We listen to the person's diction and grammar, and we observe the person's manners. Good diction and grammar, and good manners are the secret handshake. Pass it on. |
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