Sad news

Remember my news from a couple weeks ago? Here it is.

Well the sad news I have to report is that my wife just suffered a miscarriage, in her 8th week.

I can’t express how bummed we are.

:frowning: :frowning: :frowning:

Ed

I’m so sorry. It was the SDMB that taught me how sad and even devastating a miscarriage can be, and I offer my condolences.

I’m so sorry to hear that. I never had kids, so I can’t even begin to imagine how you both really feel. I’ll mention you both in my prayers.

I’m very sorry for your loss! I wish you both strength to get through this. I’ve never been through this kind of loss, but my heart goes out to both of you!

Me, neither. :frowning:

I am sorry.

I’m so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do. hugs tight

No, you can’t. That’s an exquisite pain and against the natural order of things.

You and your wife are in my thoughts.

I’m so sorry. I’ve been there many times and it sucks and hurts and confuses. Peace be with you and your wife.

:frowning: I’m sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your sadness.

I am sorry for your loss. Hold on to each other.

My sister is eleven weeks along and had heavy bleeding and cramping this weekend. I know the love you can feel for that little life you’ve barely met and the fear that goes along with that love. My sister was lucky, but my heart still breaks for you and your wife, that you were not. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

If it would help, what name(s) had you picked out.

If this is a dumb suggestion, then please ignore it and simply accept my condolences.

I am sorry for your loss and your pain.

I don’t want to sound like I’m spewing platitudes, but you can get through this, just keep trying.

I have three beautiful kids, but there were also two miscarriages. This probably doesn’t help right now, but believe me, you’re not alone.

I’m so very sorry. Hugs for both of you.

Sending warm thoughts your way.

I’m so sorry.

suranyi, I am so sorry. My wife and I went through many losses and I understand your pain. Hold your wife, remind her how much you love her and pull closer together. My wife found some comfort talking with people on the INCIID message boards and going to meetings of Share.

And don’t forget that, although you want to be the stoic man, it is OK for you to cry and grieve. My thoughts and prayers (if you’ll have them) go to you, your wife and your baby.