I’m 31 and my husband is 25. He is my first everything. He constantly says I’m not pleasing him. I give oral sex and even do anal. He says I’m boring and I take forever to give head. He wants to come in 5 minutes. What should I do. I don’t know anymore
How old is this relationship?
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Welcome to the SDMB, Janelly.
The General Questions forum is for questions with factual answers. Since this is more of an advice and opinion topic, it belongs in our IMHO forum.
Moving thread from General Questions to In My Humble Opinion.
Every woman’s dream man, one who comes in 5 minutes. :rolleyes:
Dump the boy and find a man.
Clarify please.
“He want’s to cum in five minutes” meaning he’s ready to cum in five minutes? Or he wants to cum in five minutes but it’s taking ten minutes to get him there?
I’m thinking its the latter based on what you wrote.
I sincerely hope this is not a real question in 2015.
Why did you get involved with this rude, crude self-centered little boy?
Another vote for finding a man - a male who knows how to please a partner - or is at least eager to learn.
Right off the bat - first sentence, you state ages. Nothing about the relationship, how long married, history, family, etc. But hey, we know you do anal. Hmmm.
I just want to know why they come HERE for Penthouse-type questions!! 
Oh, and to reply to the question, dump him at the nearest kerb. That’s what I tell EVERYONE who comes on a board with a relationship question! If you need to ask, you should piss them off…
Yeah I agree.
So in that mode of thought, describe your methods of doing oral… slowly…
Serious answer: talk to him. Try to work out an actual dialogue. Don’t leave your relationship in a state of “giving” and “taking” but of cooperation. Work together, in sex and in all else.
Also, counseling is an option.
Does he ever ask you what you want? If not, point this out next time he complains. It will cause a shouting match, but that pretty much needs to happen.
Thread title edited to be more specific.
Men should be more concerned with their partner’s pleasure than their own.
Marriage counseling?
Why should that be?
Both partners should do that to approximately the same extent, if at all.
Give him the finger.
/rorschach test
She won’t be back, alas.
Because it’s a lot more fun that way!
Agreed
After the anal what do you do with the truffle butter? Maybe incorporate that into some foreplay.