2006 Corolla driver side wiring harness

Just bought this car and was trying to fix the switch that controls the child safety locks.

Putting it back together and can’t get the wiring harness to mate. Is there a trick?

Thank you.

can you post a couple of pics? both ends of the connection if possible.

thank you for the reply.

But I don’t have a link to a SDMB approved site.

Thank you all.

On the 97th try they mated. And after a lot of cuss words.

It was a lesson.