2013 Weight Loss & Healthy Living Support Thread

Clean eating challenge started today and I’m slightly distracted by it. It’s not even lunchtime here and, while I would not have necessarily eaten anything with flour or sugar by this time of the day, it’s popping into my head a lot this morning. I also started the day with a 5-1/2 mile run, so I’m hungry from that.

sandra_nz, I wonder if you’d like the cottage cheese and blueberries without the fake sugar. Or maybe other berries instead. I love cottage cheese, though, so maybe my suggestions won’t help. I could never give up dairy.

I eat mine with about a teaspoon of pepper. I love pepper. Sweet with cottage cheese just seems so wrong…

I eat mine with just pure cottage cheese goodness. And I swear to god, 5 out of 7 days (I eat it every day for breakfast), I say, “GodDAMN I love cottage cheese!” when I finish it.

Well, friends, I fell off the wagon. I fell of in a big way.

I have been traveling about A LOT for work. I found it tiring to track my food and, after a week of cheating and still losing weight, I stopped trying. I let pop back into my life. I ate so much fast food. The past two weeks have been terrible. I am mad at myself because I worked so hard and now I’ve gone and undone all of that. I have to re-quit pop. It was SO hard the first time and it has been every iteration since then.

So today’s breakfast I bought from McDonald’s (I am so over hotel breakfast.) and did not buy a sugary coffee drink, juice or pop. I got their new egg white breakfast sandwich (7 points) and some apple slices with a water. I already know I can do this. I just need to stick with it.

Now for a funny story. My doctor works with a lot of people to help them lose weight. I am seeing her for general stuff because my insurance doesn’t cover medical weight loss programs. She has probably seen all the excuses. She tested my thyroid and found that it is starting to fail. I asked her about it that last time I saw her and she quickly jumped up and said, “You are fat because of food! It wasn’t your thyroid!” I just calmly replied, “I know. I eat my feelings.” She laughed. I guess a lot of people do make a lot of excuses for why they shouldn’t have to change.

You have my sympathy Slalexan, but good on you for getting back on the wagon.
I’ve let my exercise drop off while I’ve been on a very low calorie diet and I’m dreading the restart phase at the end of this month.

I have a concussion. It’s putting a big crimp in my plans. I am bored and would like to go do something fun/active. But, no. I have to stay down. Which makes me want to eat!

Arg!

Bolding mine.

That’s where you know you *haven’t *undone everything. The lessons you’ve learned have stuck with you and you’ll draw on them to get it done this time.

I have to say, though…that McDonald’s egg white sandwich does not look appealing to me at all, at least not how they show it in the ads. I need at least some yolk in there, unless I’m eating a hard boiled egg.

ETA: perfectparanoia—yikes! I know it’s hard, but rest and recover know, work out later. Can you do any stretching or flexibility work?

http://www.fitocracy.com/knowledge/why-weight-loss-is-not-the-king-of-achievements/

I found this posted by a friend on Facebook. Female-oriented, since women seem to be more concerned about the scale than men, but virtually the same arguments apply to males. Those pictures show fairly dramatically that scale weight, and fitness and attractiveness are not necessarily related at all.

I’ll steal a phrase from elsewhere: “How do you look, feel, and perform?” Those three criteria are way more important than what the scale says.

Pictures are easier to view objectively than your own reflection. If looks motivate you, take weekly snapshots; ideally in the same location, lighting, etc. I’m a dude, but I still found it motivating to buy new (expensive) jeans when I got down to within an inch of my high school waist size, so clothes can be a motivation too. Get rid of your old fat clothes; i.e. burn your ships behind you. Buy some selected new stuff, repeat as needed or as budget allows.

If moods and hunger are important to you, keep a food-mood diary. Note how you feel. Keep to a rigorous update schedule until it becomes habit, and it probably won’t even feel like work after that, it’ll just become part of your meal routine. It’ll also help you find if some foods, circumstances, workouts, etc. affect your moods. Apparently this has helped some people find patterns like mood crashes or gastrointestinal fallout following the consumption of certain foods, and other oddities in mood, motivation, or physical responses related to food.

Everyone should keep a workout log. If nothing else, it helps you know what you should be doing this workout based on what you did last time. You should make subjective note too, like if the weight felt horrendous but you were able to lift it, or if you had tight shoulders, or if you felt like puking after the last sprint, stuff like that. I find it pretty motivating to look back at stuff I did a year ago and think, “wow, that would be a moderate workout instead of an asskicker now,” or, “crap, I need to do more met-con/running since I’m two minutes down from my 5k time 6 months ago.”

Of these three, I still regularly maintain a workout log. I found pictures motivating when first losing weight, but don’t care much anymore about appearance; I’m more focused on performance and how I feel during and after a workout. I also don’t have food fixations, so I don’t need to keep food logs most of the time. I still do occasional spot checks to see more objectively what I’m eating. I’ll do like a 3-day or 1-week diary and do a basic nutrient/calorie breakdown. I realize different people have different motivations, though, which is why I made some suggestions addressing each of the look/feel/perform points.

Thanks for your encouragement! I don’t choose McDonalds every day for breakfast and this isn’t too bad. However, I don’t mind egg whites only. Today, just looking at what I had available at the hotel made me want to vomit. It even smelled funny. I just couldn’t eat there.

Well I’ve pretty much run out of motivation for the whole weight loss thing. I had an unexpected surge of motivation and temporary escape from depression that got me going, and just as quickly it’s gone. I’m still obligated to do another 20 pounds - I committed to 80 and I don’t generally go back on my commitments, but all the enthusiasm is completely sucked out of me and it’s difficult to even go through the motions.

105.8 kg on the scales this morning, a good loss from last Friday’s official weigh-in of 107.6kg. The only change I’ve made is I’ve stopped the daily Muller Yoghurt Fruit Corner and started eating cottage cheese.

Yay for cottage cheese! :smiley:

A Monday bump, how’s everyone doing?

Friday’s official weigh-in was steady at 105.8kg, wahoo!

Yesterday my husband and I took a day trip to Lincoln, a city about two hours drive away. I decided to have a ‘free day’ with food and I’m kinda regretting it this morning. I had a cinnamon swirl from Starbucks for morning tea, baguette with salmon and cream cheese for lunch, and carrot cake in the afternoon. Carb-city! Today I have spent most of the morning back and forth to the loo with a very unhappy tummy. :frowning:

I got a bit sick of the cottage cheese last week, so this week my afternoon snack is some sliced Emmental wrapped in pastrami.

On days when I’m just not feeling it, I kinda let habit take over. I know how to do it, I just need to not let myself go off the rails.

This weekend is my first post-Lifetime challenge. My cousin’s son is having his bar mitzvah and there’s the post-ceremony Kiddush (kind of a luncheon thing), dinner, and brunch the next day. No clue on the food they’re planning to serve, except that it’s kosher. I’m planning to eat half and send the other half away ASAP. I’m also planning to go to the King of Prussia mall just to walk around. And get my “got to goal” award, which is a great pair of expensive jeans. Although, given the amount of skin I’m carrying around (and I’m still not planning to do the surgery), that may be something of a challenge.

Then, next weekend, I go to a conference at a college campus. We’ll be eating at the food service, so there should be options available, plus the organizers thoughtfully planned yoga and tai chi sessions in the mornings, so I’ll be able to try both.

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olives, I am so freaking impressed by all you have done. While it sounds like you probably look different, what shines through for me is how diffierent you sound/feel/present. It’s very inspirational and I’m about to embark on a 40-day Clean Eating challenge starting on Monday. I’m scared! But I love a lot of food that is considered ‘clean’, so it’s not like I’m eating twigs and grass. I’m just leaving behind crackers and chocolate for a bit.
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How has this been going for you? I really appreciate the encouragement; I’m in need of some right now. I haven’t been able to go hiking in three weekends now. Last week it was Mother’s Day Traffic, yesterday it was bad knee pain. Thankfully my knees feel a little better today. I was on the verge of needing to go to the doctor.

I weighed myself, against my better judgement, and I weigh .5 less than I did 3 weeks ago - 185 lbs. That’s a whopping 3 pounds lighter than I weighed in December. I have continued to eat clean, but it would not surprise me if I am still eating too much. I think I’ve been too heavy on the dairy lately. I haven’t been eating much meat at all, so usually I just grab some cheese or a PBJ and milk instead of fixing a meal. And I eat fruits and veggies all day long. I should probably start tracking my calories at least for a while to get a sense of what I’m actually eating lately.

I really needed to read that. My pants have gotten looser in the past month by quite a bit, and I’ve even had a few comments, but there’s nothing showing on the scale. I’m okay with that as long as I’m losing fat, but some feedback from my body would be nice. Lately it’s hard to judge based on my pants.

Yay! Keep up the good work!

Quoted to amuse my inner ten year old.

I’m almost done with my very low calorie cycle. Thank G-d. I’ve lost 28% of my start weight in the past 20 months, so I should be happy but I got so fixated on my goal-weight “number” I’m not happy because I’m going to miss my number by about 3 pounds. Maybe I need a head-shrinker more than a butt-shrinker.

Hit a milestone today. I can’t remember exactly what I weighed in what year, but I’m fairly certain that I’m now at the lowest weight I’ve been at in at least 8 years. But barely lower than where I was 9 months ago, so eh.

Glad I could help in some small way.

Best result I am having lately isn’t weight loss (since I am not weighing myself, I was an addict) but my digestive system being on track.

I just feel so much lighter and happier now that all the problems are gone.

It’s been a bad month for eating for me - the first weekend of May I had a bridesmaid meetup before my friend’s wedding and she made a ton of food for us! Then this past weekend I had my trip to Minneapolis with my mom to look for my bridesmaid dress and new clothes (35 pounds down, needed some!). I had to try Taco Bell and Chipotle since I’ve never had them and they aren’t anywhere near me!

But after all of that, I discovered I only gained 1 pound! Phew! Maybe all the walking at the Mall of America offset some calories. :wink:

But the real victory for me is in clothes. I was wearing size 22 which definitely put me outside the range of normal clothing stores in Canada and confined me to the expensive plus size stores. But now I can fit Old Navy’s XXL and Forever 21’s 3x tops/18 bottoms! That’s right, I’ve moved from the realm of $25 plain t-shirts and $60 jeans to the land of $8 plain t-shirts and $20 jeans! I bought 7 tops and 4 pairs of jeans for about $200. That’s insane, I remember when I’d buy 2 shirts and a pair of slacks and it’d be $120!

So now my push is to the 199lb mark. I’m at 205 right now. I think once I hit that I’ll treat myself to an internet upgrade - an extra $10 a month for faster speed.

I’m now buying size 10/medium clothes and I’m maintaining easily despite dipping into the sweets and carbs more than I should. But my boycott of the snack choices at work mean that I’m snacking more on fruit and veggies from the supermarket. Cheaper and healthier!

Has anyone noticed that they need smaller shoes? For some reason, I’ve gone down a shoe size. The best I can figure is that my feet and ankles aren’t swollen anymore. :shrug:

Congratulations to everyone! Remember to celebrate small victories as well as the big ones. And have a great Memorial Day weekend.