Frinstance, I promise to buy something from you, you send it to me, I never send a check.
I have what I want. You have to initiate something else to get what you want, maybe hiring a lawyer or filling out loads of forms, maybe buying a Saturday Night Special. All these things involve effort and expenses that most people and companies don’t want, so they’ll just take the hit if it’s a small one.
Say you have a friend over at your house and he has some drugs with him. You’re not into it, but you don’t care what he does. He goes out to the liquor store to buy some beer, but leaves his dope at your place. In the meantime the cops show up to bust you, and low and behold you have drugs in your house. You try to tell the officer that they aren’t your drugs, they belong to your friend and he’ll be right back. Cop says, too bad, your house and possession is 9/10 of the law. The judge is gonna agree with him, too.
IANAL, but I am a legal assistant to one, so I’ve had enough of the schooling to be able to answer this one with a teensy bit of knowledge.