I am so fucking disgusted with racist people. I know how trite that sounds, but it’s completely true and I can barely stand it anymore.
Seriously, I read stuff like Puma Claw’s posts and I just want to throw my hands up in the air and scream “What the fuck!?” until I pass out.
I have a few rules of decency regarding racial issues that I try very hard to follow in my everyday life. Wanna hear?
1. No matter how oppressed your ancestors may have been, it does not give you carte blanche to be an ignorant asshole to everyone you meet.
Sorry, it just doesn’t. Your actions and words are yours alone, and none but you will be answerable for them. I am sorry your ancestors had troubles; I feel for your lingering pain, and would seek to learn what I can from you and your history, perhaps in the process mending old hurts and forging a new friendship. But you are not allowed to dismiss me or treat me poorly simply because you’re having a hard time.
2. If you refuse to treat others with decency and respect, you will be given no decency or respect in return, regardless of what you feel you are ‘owed’.
I understand that you are angry about the treatment of your ancestors. I understand you feel that as their descendant you are entitled to some apology or reparation for past wrongs. But the majority of the people you encounter day-to-day are not interested in your political agenda, and are just trying to get by in life as best they can. To treat them badly is inviting further poor treatment. Not because you are whatever race you are, but because you are being a complete asshole.
**3. All human beings, regardless of race, religion, gender, etc., are far more alike than different, and all are worthy of respect and kindness. **
To celebrate and learn about one’s history, religion, etc., is a good thing. It increases the knowledge and understanding of all of us. To show respect for other cultures who may have different ideas and practices is also a good thing; it shows compassion and empathy, and it, too, increases the knowledge and understanding of all of us. But to use this knowledge as a weapon, to divide and estrange your fellows humans, is undoubtedly a bad thing, and it will lead only to anger, and warfare, and lingering resentment.
All humans are members of one species, and each culture is a piece of the puzzle, another clue towards understanding what makes us human. No culture or race or religion or gender should be valued above any other, for all have their part, and without any one piece the whole is diminished.
I do not, and have never, and I hope never to understand beliefs regarding the superiority of any people over another. It is to me ridiculous, and divisive, and groundless.
But some people persist in their foolishness, and draw lines where in truth no lines exist. Why? I don’t understand, and it sickens me that there are still people so consumed by anger and hatred that they would not see the futility of their position.
I hope one day Puma Claw and others like him learn this.