But is it a good idea?
Yesterday, I was a passenger in a vehicle on a rural interstate. We noticed a state police car see us, hit his lights, and turn across the grass median to chase us. I looked at the driver and asked if he was speeding. Probably a few miles per hour over. He kept driving.
About a mile and a half later, here comes Smokey behind us with his lights flashing and we pull over. Very polite officer states that he clocked my friend travelling 76 mph in a 70mph zone. Asks my friend for license, registration, proof of insurance. He complies.
Takes one step towards his car and returns. Then he asks ME for my ID. I thought about refusing, knowing that he had no right to see it since I was merely a passenger. In those probably two seconds of delay, I wondered why a cop would cross the interstate for 7 mph over and ask a passenger for ID. I complied, having nothing to hide.
Fifteen minutes later, he returns with both of our information and a warning ticket for speeding. Told my friend to slow it down and to have a nice day. I chimed in:
“Officer, may I ask why you asked to see my identification when I wasn’t even driving?” The cop said that thirty minutes before, a woman had called in a domestic violence complaint and that her alleged abuser left in a black sedan (our car description) and he thought that it might be us. I asked what would have happened if I would have refused to give my ID. He said that we would have been there much longer and gotten a real speeding ticket instead of a warning and have let an abuser get away on our conscience.
Maybe he was bullshitting me, but maybe handing over an ID when there was no real reason not to was a good thing, and if it didn’t help catch an abuser, it might have gotten us a warning instead of a ticket.
Is this an example of asserting one’s rights not necessarily being the best thing when those rights are minimal?