Yeah. Definitely tighter.
Actually yes I can, and so can she. Though to be fair she has a medical condition where parts of her skin grow back a bit. Since we have a toddler that is 21 months old we don’t get that much time together.
As for the bonus question had you asked before I knew her then I would have said no, but I’m guessing for most women this isn’t a problem. She had a c-section so she never had the tears that she was told might help. Also since she’s still nursing she can’t use the hormones that help out as well.
For one ex-GF, I have noticed differences in tightness at times, but I dont think it had anything to do with the frequency of sex, as that was pretty much always at a constant ‘once every 3-4 days’ period.
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No, and no. But then, I’m never really sure when my wife last had sex.
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Years ago, I was having some problems with a woman I was dating. Sex problems. The underlying issue was that I enjoyed it and she didn’t. We went to a number of therapists over this. One of her problems was that she was too tight, and she would get really sore. One therapist suggested that I open her up first with my fingers. Does that make sense? Wouldn’t it have just made her sore earlier? Is it even possible to make a woman temporarily wider?
We never did get the issues solved, BTW. The ultimate solution for me was to find someone else.
It does seem tighter if it has been a week or so.
Yes it makes sense, no it shouldn’t make her sore much earlier, if at all, and yes, it’s possible to make a woman temporarily wider.
It’s like the neck of a never inflated latex balloon, okay? If you stretch it gently with your more-dexterous-than-a-penis fingers before you fill it (with penis in the vagina’s case, with air in the balloon’s), then it will be more flexible and give more to the blunt penetration of penis (or air, for the balloon). The vagina is a muscle, or rather, a bunch of muscles. Just like your thigh muscles are more flexible after you’ve warmed them up with gentle movement, her vagina will be more flexible after you’ve warmed it up with gentle movement. Her vagina, unlike your thigh muscles, can’t be moved by her directly (her pelvic floor muscles can, but her vagina is smooth muscle like the gut, not skeletal muscle you can move voluntarily) - she’s relying on one or the other of you to warm her up. Of course, there’s a limit to the stretchiness - around 10 cm diameter in most women. But y’all don’t have a four inch *diameter *schlong, I just know you don’t. 
(Just don’t take my analogy literally and blow into a vagina, okay? It’s extremely, extremely rare, but blowing into the vagina can cause fatal air embolisms. Best not to risk it, it doesn’t really feel good anyway.)
If chafing, not flexibility, is the issue, then that’s a different matter, and one solved better by lube or you (general you, not you you) cumming already, darn it!
Thanks for the info. She’s long since gone, and it was never a problem with anyone else, but if it comes up in the future, now I’m armed with knowledge.
Foreplay. What a concept!
Once or twice over the course of a long-distance relationship, towards the end of a long (and passionate) weekend, things did feel slightly looser. This was after four or five days of two or three times a day, but still.
I don’t understand how a threesome would make this more comfortable.
True. All those elbows and knees were mighty uncomfortable.
Frequent sex is much more likely to cause softer dicks than stretched out pussies, but I have to say that the idea that y’all wore us out is adorable.
Well, of course she’s gonna get stretched out if you’re sticking your knees and elbows in there! :rolleyes:
Speaking for my gal and me, if it’s been longer than 10 days or so, it’s more difficult. I notice it takes slightly more effort and I get a bit more pleasure, but there’s more discomfort for her. After a short “reconditioning” session and a day’s wait, business as usual.
Gay guy here and I’d say yes.
I always thought it had more to do with the state of mind she was in.
If my girl was uptight or stressed, (or especialy “Make up” sex); she felt tighter. If she’s relaxed or a little tipsy she felt looser.
It’s probably all in my head tho’.