Hello, I’ve been reading for quite some time but finally just decided to post this question.
I am a sexually active 19 year old but have a problem with the tightness of my vagina. I don’t have a problem with ‘getting wet’, in fact it is very well lubricated with uh… my natural juices. My problem is that my vagina is so tight that it is somewhat uncomfortable having sex. Is there anyway that I can ‘loosen up’ more? Like I said, I get very wet, so I don’t think it is a problem with being excited or not. It’s just that I guess I have a naturally tight vagina.
Anybody have any suggestions on how to resolve this?
Sure is hard to take this thread seriously with people making straight lines like that.
Umm, let’s see. Have you tried various positions? Some favor the larger gentleman (kneeling, knees up, etc.).
Have you experienced orgasm through foreplay before moving on to the main event? That can relax things somewhat.
Speaking of the larger gentleman… how large are we talking about, here? Maybe it’s not so much that you’re undersized, he might be a little too gifted…
In addition to Waverly’s post, here’s another serious answer. Check with a doctor first, just to rule out anything wrong. If there’s not and it’s just a “matter of size” you may visit a “just for her” kind of store to see if there is are any interesting products out there.
TMI WARNING, really, I mean it:
[sub]And if the OP isn’t for real, this may kill the mood[/sub]
I had a discussion once with someone who had recently undergone gender re-assignment surgery. The recovery period did include a regimen of dilations sessions – basically, she’d have to insert a type of dildo (I’m sure there’s a more clinical scientific term, but whatever) with a specific diameter for a specified period of time. Over a course of weeks, the diameter of the dildo was increased as was the length of each session. This was to prevent collapse of the newly-constructed vaginal interior.
She can now have sex normally, but she said started out pretty “tight” at first (though a lot of that was the healing process of the radical surgery.)
I’m not saying you would ever have to go through such great efforts. Women come in different shapes and sizes. One of my ex girlfriends (lesbian, remember) had been with men until she came out in her 20s. Fifteen years later, she said she was diffinitely ahem “smaller” and noticeably tighter, than she had been back in the day when she was dating men.
So if your “active” status is more or less recent, it coudl be as simple as your body not being accustomed to it.
Although with a real case of vaginismus (have known a girl with that too…) it’s difficult or even impossible to get one finger in. So I don’t think you have that. Maybe it’s a combination of a bit of tension, and a bit of ‘stretching’ still to do.
To what extent is that an understatement? I has a pain in a testicle that was “somewhat” uncomfortable and it turned out to be cancer. I’m sure you have nothing so severe, but the point is that you should talk to your ob-gyn and not the message board. Don’t bother being too shy to ask the doctor–life’s too short for that.
