I’d say no. If they wanted the scene to be canon, it would have been included in the movie/episode. After all, if the deleted scenes included an alternate ending that conflicted with the main ending, certainly that wouldn’t be canon, right?
But Desperate Housewives now shows a scene on GMA, as a promotional thing for both shows, but the scene was cut for running time. Though I think the scene was specifically shot to appear on GMA.