I just thought the comment was punny.
I am 5’9.5ish" and ~310 so I guess I am REALLY overweight.
Denial: I don’t have any serious health issues yet, and I try to tell myself I like my body because I gain weight proportionally all over, rather than in specific areas, and just look generally really large.
Isolation: I go to work and back to my house where it’s safe and sometimes where I can eat a lot without anyone judging me. I do go out for a big breakfast with a friend once a week but for the most part I only let those closest to me actually see me eating the way I like to.
Community: I was a lot more self-conscious in downtown New York City where everyone is modelish, but up here there are more overweight people. The upper class tends to be fit and outdoorsy, but there is more room (heh) for outliers like me. The thought that I am too fat, and that others are thinking it, is always on my mind though. I do have to do the “jolly” thing to assure people that I am content with who I am. I worry that if I had to compete for employment where I am not already known, I wouldn’t get the job because of my weight. It makes me feel paralyzed and compelled to stay in the company I am in indefinitely because what if I can’t get a job elsewhere?
Health: Again, my labs and other measures are within the normal range, but I am certainly uncomfortable carrying this much weight. I put up with the discomfort long enough to get from here to there and then be sedentary again. It does hamper what I can do in terms of walking and talking, being outdoors and hiking through nature, etc. It makes me have to evaluate the weight and volume limit on seating options, wonder about being able to fly comfortably without buying a second seat, …
ETA: Oh, and as far as relationships go, I’m celibate anyway and the idea of dating doesn’t cross my mind anyway. But I know that I also use fat as a shield to keep anyone from being attracted to me.