Hi. I don’t want to seem insulting or crass, but I do wonder about this fairly often. If someone could start an “Ask The REALLY Overweight Person!” that would be great. Thanks.
No? Oh well, then, here I go. How do you stand it? It seems like morbidly obese people are one of the last groups of people that can be very openly harassed and discriminated against, even made fun of right out in public. I am full of empathy and wouldn’t think of doing anything to make anyone uncomfortable, but I do observe these things very often. People seem to feel like it’s okay to stare, make comments, laugh, and worse.
It seems to be that living with that day in and day out over time would make one very depressed and extremely unhappy. I know that I couldn’t deal with it- being 25 pounds overweight is bad enough for the ol’ psyche. So how do you deal with it? Do you just stop noticing it over time?
Again, I’m sorry if this brings up bad feelings for anyone, and I’m not trying to be, well, anything. It’s because I do have so much empathy that I genuinely wonder and worry about this.
If I don’t get any replies I’ll understand.