The terms “top” and “bottom” are usually references to anal sex. But if someone describes himself as an “oral top,” does that mean he’s the suckER or the suckEE? I’ve encountered some confusion on this terminology, and am wondering if there’s anything close to a consensus. Thanks.
I would guess suckEE, but that’s just a guess…
I’ve never heard top/bottom used for oral. (This does not mean it’s not used.) I have heard French active/passive used for oral. Oddly, French active is the suckEE; French passive is the suckER.
Haven’t heard the “French” terminology in a while, but I remember it being the other way around.
Cajun Man just informed me I have the terms reversed. In my defense, it appears that the meanings of French active/passive have reversed since I last checked. See The Oral Partner in Oral Sex.