Psst: you also forgot that teleconferencing wasn’t a thing people did back in 1989. So, you can’t be mistaking a teleconference you were in with her for your reason she was in earshot and you can’t have seen her perk up and say, “You like Warren Zevon??” in a teleconference. Or have you already forgotten that you said you misremembered a teleconference as a face-to-face conversation?
Like Judge Judy said, you don’t need a good memory if you’re telling the truth.