Pre-question clarifications: I fall somewhere into the theist camp, but edging sharply towards the sort of thing you describe in 3b. I believe in a singular creator force in the universe (but nothing so defined as a “God” that watches us and takes care of us), believe that I will continue in some way after death, don’t believe in a heaven or hell, and find the whole concept of Jesus to be kind of weird.
Religion was nothing more than a theoretical discussion topic in my family - a complete non-issue. On my father’s side, my grandmother was raised Catholic, and attends whatever Christian church she likes wherever she is living with no concern towards denomination. She is the only one in my family (either side) that I know of that attends any sort of church, believes in angels, etc. My father self-identifies as vaguely Buddhist. My mom’s side of the family is nondescript proto-Protestent / proto-agnostic.
1a Theist: Do you think most atheists wish there were a [n all powerfull and Good] God?
Maybe some? I doubt that most do. I think that the people above that believe people are atheists because of fear or control issues are fooling themselves. Maybe because they have trouble picturing it?
1b Atheist: Do you wish so?
Not in the least.
2a Theist: What are your feelings about people who are convinced they won’t burn in hell because there is no such place? (Assume their belief is as strong as your belief that there is such a place)
I think they’re right.
And I feel sorry for those who actually believe that a good person would burn in hell for not believing.
And if, god forbid, it turns out that I was wrong and a deity greets me at the probverbial pearly gates, I will freely admit my mistake and start worshipping him then and there, and expect to be admitted to heaven. On the other hand, any diety who would condemn someone to eternal torture for an honest mistake does not fit my concept of a just and/or loving god, and I’d be well away from him even in hell.
2b Atheist: What, in your opinion, happens to that thing we call a ‘soul’ after our body dies? If anything? How can you comprehend how it might ‘feel’ to die?
I have not yet decided what happens after death. I do believe that I will continue in some form, whether you call it energy or a soul.
*4a Theist: Give me your opinion of the Phelps family.
4b Atheist: Give me your opinions of Darwin and Dawkins.*
Only one of those that I’ve heard of before this thread is Darwin, whom I respect as a very smart man. Evolution absolutely exists, and it amazes me that so many people still deny its existence, as there’s nothing about it that I can see that disproves the existence of a god.