Amazingly, I have never once suggested not holding rapists fully responsible for the crimes they commit. Of course individual racists are culpable, and the culture is culpable, and direct enablers of the racists who are not racist themselves are culpable.
Amazingly, I have never once suggested that victims were at fault. I said as much in the other thread.
The case of the 11-yr-old? If a minor child that young is outside the view of someone’s parents long enough to be raped, I am DAMN SURE blaming the parents. That’s not an opinion regarding rape, that’s an opinion regarding harm coming to neglected/unsupervised minors. I’d blame her parents if she were mugged or hit by a train.
Once again, your habit of lighting into people who are on your side but approach the issue 1% differently than you do is not helping anyone.