I need a will. But I have nobody I can turn to to be an executor.
My brothers & sister are either unreliable or untrustworthy.
Besides, I’m not leaving them a nickel. It’s going to charity, museums & libraries.
What to do?
Ask a lawyer in your jurisdiction. I’m sure that you will find lawyers or specialised corporations that will do it, but will (of course) take their expenses out of your estate. However, apart from taking their slice of the cake, they would be ethically and legally bound to carry out your wishes, as expressed in your will.
What to do? Really? You do the same thing laypeople have done for centuries when dealing with legal formalities they have no clue how to accomplish on their own: hire a lawyer.
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For single people with no children and very small estates, a state’s intestacy statute will generally do a fine job of distributing property among a decedent’s heirs. In general, those statutes (OK, Illinois’s statute) distribute it thus:
Since you do not want your siblings to take, you will need a will.
What happens if you fail to nominate an executor?
Who can see to become an administrator with the will annexed?
Classes (a), (c), and (d) are out. Your planned legatees are the charities, musuems, and libraries who take under the will, but I doubt any of them will be too thrilled to administer the will. That leaves (e), if your father survives you, or (f), your siblings, or (i), the Public Administrator, supposing your father, if surviving, or siblings do not petition for letters of administration—and they very well might not, if they do not take under the will.
An estate lawyer (or even perhaps Legal Aid) in your jurisdiction will know if you can nominate the Public Administrator as your executor in Tennessee (Tennessee might not have such an office).
Assuming you’re going to use a lawyer to draw up the will (not everyone does, but I’d guess leaving things to institutions instead of people might make it a good idea) - ask her when you talk about where your assets are going.
Got an appointment with an attorney.
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Obviously this is moot now, but I’d have suggested to the OP that he ask a trusted friend to be executor. Preferably a friend he expects to outlive him.
And if you don’t have any friends like that, I do think it’s a good idea to try to make a point of trying to befriend someone younger than you that you can trust.
If I expected to remain single and childless for my whole life, I seriously would go out of my way to try to make friends with some young people and try to find someone trustworthy and honorable. It’s actually quite important to have someone who can speak up for you and advocate for you when you’re too sick or senile to speak up for yourself (medical decisions and so on).
I don’t think most people really think much about that before the situation comes up, but I seriously think with all the people out there nowadays who never marry or have kids that it’s something that people should make a priority.
You should be able to get one of the Mods here to do it. Isn’t that one of the Charter Member perks? You just need to leave a small stipend for the care and feeding of the hamsters.
Or, call a lawyer.
I know it’s an old thread, but I guess I missed it the first time around. So I’ll add the fact that, as I recall, if no relatives or friends are willing or suitable to be your executor, it should be possible to have your lawyer act as your executor. Check with a lawyer in your jurisdiction to be sure.