I have a question for all you pro-lifers/anti-abortion-rights folks.
Imagine that, by mutual consent or magic decree of some deity, every woman in the US with an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy chose not to terminate, but to carry the baby to term. What then?
Sure, some of the babies would be placed for adoption. The white, healthy ones would probably all get adopted. The cutest of the healthy mixed-race ones, too. But what about the rest? There isn’t enough foster-care resources to take care of all of them adequately. Every states foster-care and child welfare budget would have to increase exponentially.
And then there are the unwanted ones who are not adopted out. Do you have any idea what’s it’s like to be an unwanted, resented child? To have your mother say “If abortion were legal, you wouldn’t be here!” (That was my grandmother to my mother). To have a parent constantly call you stupid, even though you’re in the gifted program at school? (My grandmother to me, during the years when we pretended I was her child and not my teenage mother’s baby). It pretty much sucks.
And then there’s physical abuse, beatings, starvation, neglect, etc. Expect those problems to increase exponentially. We could put a lot of programs and services in place, to help the parents be better parents, but heck, we don’t do much of that now, for poor folks who have chosen not to terminate their “oops” pregnancies. Instead we call them freeloaders, scum, lowlifes who can’t keep their legs closed/keep it in their pants.
Sure, some of the moms and dads will love and cherish their babies, and everything will be hunky-dory for them. And that’s wonderful. But, most likely, most of those women would not have chosen to terminate anyway.
I get it, you want no more abortions. But, then what?