Let me preface this by saying that I know that there are thousands of sites out there on adoption. I just wonder if anyone has any personal experience, good or bad.
That said, I really wanna adopt a child. There is no reason other than I feel lucky and I want to share my luck, life and love with a child that needs parents.
I guess I would prefer to adopt from out of the USA, probably because I watch Dateline too much. Seeing all the orphans in war-torn countries really gets me down deep in my gut.
When I first told Mr. Duhnym about this he was shocked, but I think I have him used (even accepting) to the idea of it. I do know that I will have to do all the research and present him a plan of action (like a business plan) for him to sit down and have a hard look at it. I figured this was a good place to start soliciting opinions, reassurances, etc.
I do know two different couples that have adopted 6 out-of-the-country children between them, so I’m not looking for advice on how to accomplish this, I’ve got my adoption Svengali. I really just want to know if anyone out there has done it, and how you feel about the results. Also, I want honest opinions, something that the anonimity (sp?) of cyberspace can sometimes produce.
Any advice?
BTW, opinions from adoptees is welcome and wanted too!
Sue
A woman needs four animals in her life: A mink in the closet, a Jaguar in the garage, a tiger in the bedroom, and an ass to pay for it all.
—Zsa Zsa Gabor