I’m going to disagree with the others a bit. If you don’t change the oil often enough I don’t see where it will really cause that much damage. Sure the oil will get a bit dirtier, and supposedly this causes extra wear and tear on some engine parts, but as long as the oil maintains a reasonable viscosity then I can’t see where it’s really going to hurt much.
On the other hand, if your engine burns oil or has a small leak, then you could really get yourself into trouble. If you don’t have enough oil in the engine then all the mechanical parts are going to start scraping together with rather disasterous results. The first thing to go will probably be the rings. You’ll notice that the car burns oil, since it will get past the rings and will make black smoke come out the tail pipe, and the gas mileage of the car will drop. Slowly but surely the engine will be ruined from the inside out.
By the time the idiot light comes on in most cars, the oil pressure is already far too low and a lot of damage has already been done.
The “professional tool” (an oil filter wrench) will cost you all of 5 bucks at the local auto parts store. Some people will just stab the old oil filter with a screwdriver then use the screwdriver’s handle to torque the thing off, but I wouldn’t recommend that.
An oil change is about the simplest thing you can do on a car, other than changing a tire. Get yourself one of those containers from the auto parts store that the oil can drip into, then you just close the cover up and take it to the oil recycler, undo the little cap, and pour it out. Depending on your car, you may need to jack it up to get to the oil drain plug. If you do jack the car up, NEVER EVER get underneath a car with only a jack holding it up. Get a couple of jack stands and make sure the car is supported by the jack stands (plus the jack) before you go underneath it. Remove the oil fill cap at the top of the engine, then loosen the drain plug at the bottom of the engine. Make sure you use the proper size wrench so you don’t strip the bolt head. Wait until all of the oil drains out into your container, then put the drain plug back in. Remove the old oil filter. On some cars the oil filter is really difficult to reach, but then they give you a removable panel inside the wheel well that you can use to get it out. Take a little bit of new oil and lightly coat both sides of the gasket on the new oil filter so that it will make a nice seal, then put the new oil filter on. Tighten it “hand tight” (as tight as you can get it without using any tools). Put in the new oil, make sure you put the fill cap back on, and you’re done. Get into the habit of double checking to make sure you put everything back in place. My wife stopped at a gas station and they said she was low on oil, then proceeded to forget to put the fill cap back on after they added a quart. :smack:
Most areas have some sort of oil recycling set up. Where I live now there are a handful of shops where you can dump the old oil. Where I used to live, you could just take it to the city dump. They had a tank set up just inside the gate where you could dump the oil for recycling.
Personally, I would recommend learning to change your own oil. Not only are you saving yourself money, but you are making sure the job is done right. Those awful quick lube places don’t even bother to take out the drain plug. They just suck out the old oil from the top with a suction, which probably leaves a bunch of old gunk and dirty oil at the bottom of the engine. If you do choose to have a mechanic do it for you, at least take it to a decent mechanic and not a quick lube place.