First, yes, I have taken her - and followed up with calls - to the vet. But they haven’t been terribly helpful and I hope to find someone who has had a similar problem for advice.
The problem: my cat doesn’t eat as much as she should. And when she does eat, it is usually crappy food (Fancy Feast) which I am not comfortable feeding her forever. When she refuses to eat, she complains and then throws up bile, sometimes 2 or 3 times a night (or day, depending)
The background: A few weeks ago I took her to the vet for a teeth-cleaning. In the process 2 teeth needed to be pulled and the vet diagnosed her with calicivirus. As far as that goes, the vet recommended I stop feeding her anything with fish and take her in for annual check-ups.
She has free-fed dry food her whole life with a 3 oz can of wet food once every one or two weeks as a treat. She has always been good at drinking water on her own, so wet food wasn’t a huge part of her diet. I took her the vet because she started refusing her dry food and losing weight. I suspected her teeth hurt, so I upped her wet food to two 3-oz cans a day. This seemed to help, but she stopped eating her dry food entirely.
Now her mouth has healed but she has gotten finicky about her food. Before she would eat any flavor of Wellness I gave her. Then I started trying other brands and flavors of food (Natural Balance). She would eat most of the kinds I put in front of her, but soon she started refusing brands and/or flavors that she ate happily a few days before. I’ve put the dry food out again, and she nibbles on it occasionally, but not enough to sustain her. I would be fine with walking away, but after 12 hours or so without eating, she vomits bile. When she refuses her evening meal, she might vomit 2 or 3 times in the night. She has always been skinny, so she can’t afford to miss too many meals. Once she went about 36 hours without eating, after I had offered her several types of food. In desperation I gave her a can of Fancy Feast, and she went for it.
So, I started giving her Fancy Feast one meal a day with healthier food for the other meal. Guess which one she refuses? She nibbles the dry food occasionally, particularly when she turns up her nose at the wet, but she still vomits frequently. I’ve previously tried putting tuna-water over her food (which one vet recommended) but it didn’t work at all, plus I’m not supposed to give her any fish because of the virus.
I talked to a nurse at the vet’s for a long time on Friday, and he suggested choosing one wet food and sticking with it, continuing to offer it at morning and night, with dry food all day to supplement. And to keep a few cans of Fancy Feast around for when she goes on her “hunger strikes.” But my questions for this strategy are:
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How do I choose the “one food”? She has not been consistent with eating any of the healthy varieties lately. If I just have to pick one and hope she gets used to it I’m inclined to go for Wellness, since that’s what she’s eaten her whole life. But if she refuses it, how many cans do I throw away before I conclude she’s never going to eat it and try something else?
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How long do I wait for her to not eat before I break down and give her the Fancy Feast? She can’t afford to lose any more weight. Plus I’m getting pretty tired of stepping in puddles of bile every morning.
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If she continues to refuse long enough for me to give her the Fancy Feast, then will she ever start eating the healthy stuff again?
How did my totally low-maintenance super-cool cat become such a PITA?!