You all know the story by now. I’m out of work. Mom is on the brink of death. My fiancée decided she didn’t want to get married. I’m in the process of selling most of my stuff – sort of ‘starting clean’, as it were. But I need something else.
I’ve been interested in aikido for a number of years, but never got around to learning it. My right leg doesn’t go all the way back because of a skiing injury. The same incident cost me the ability to move my right great toe upwards. A car wreck exactly a year later claimed part of my left patella, and I’m missing the tendon. I cannot extend my left leg fully under its own power, and without the tendon it won’t support my weight beyond a certain angle. I’m also overweight.
In my car-selling seminar was a girl (who looked so remarkably like my former fiancée that they could have been sisters) who is a cop and tae kwan do enthusiast. With my legs, I can’t see myself doind a lot of kicking. She introduced me to another cop in the class who is a martial arts instructor. He suggested I look into judo, since it’s not as violent as aikido. (He explained that judo is more of a tournament thing, while aikido is more self-defense oriented. He demonstrated a judo move, then showed a similar aikido move that could result in the breaking of a bad guy’s elbow.) I looked in the phone book for a judo dojo, but didn’t see anyone advertising one. I did find an aikido class.
These are my goals:
[ul][li]Mental discipline. I’m going through a rough time right now, and I need some focus.[/li][li]Physical fitness. I’d like to think that learning a martial art will help me lose weight.[/li][li]Something to do other than sit around reading The Straight Dope, putting things on eBay and watching telly.[/li][li]Self defense? I don’t think I need to learn it. Even in the seediest parts of L.A. (when I lived there) I never felt the need to protect myself. Still, I guess there’s nothing wrong with learning it.[/ul][/li]Besides, I might meet a grrl. (No, I’ve given that up.)
Given my physical condition, am I a good candidate for aikido?
Just to answer before it’s asked, tai chi seems to slow and sedate for me.