*Originally posted by SexyWriter *
Yes, perhaps a King IS needed. Because contrary to your nasty attack above, most of the people posting **(probably) ** HAVE read the AA Big Book, and have plenty of experience with what the organization involves. (they don’t say that) We also have valuable experience **(anecdotal, I got lots of that stuff too.) **about how what actually goes ON in the meetings varies from the schtick (<-- is schtick to you and to someone else?) in the book.
I assume**(<-- nuff said)** you’re suggesting that AA isn’t a religious organization,(no) and thus it is acceptable for the courts to continue to use it as a treatment option. However, perhaps YOU should open YOUR AA Big Book, where I found the following information:
Chapter 2, page 25 of the little blue “Big Book,” has this to say:
“The central fact of our lives today is the absolute certainty that our Creator has entered into our hearts and lives in a way which is indeed miraculous. He has commended to accomplish those things for us which we could never do by ourselves.”(Opinion and does not say that anyone has to believe it, just what the first 100 who got sober felt like about it in 1939 when it was written.)
Even the Chapter titled “We Agnostics” (Chapter 4) seems intent on forcing God down the throat of the alcoholic who would dare remain atheist. Page 44 of Chapter 4 says,
“If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic. If that be the case, you may be suffering from an illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer.”(Again only opinion, as the only thing that worked in 1939 for those folks was a ‘spiritual’ experience, they told us that. AA does not say that it has to be so. Just as one of the earliest members was an atheist and stayed that an atheist. Also stayed sober.)
“After awhile we (<— The original 100 as Bill Wilson saw it and they let it stand as he wrote it.) had to face the fact that we must find a spiritual basis of life–or else.”
And on page 45:
“Well, that’s exactly what thsi book is about. Its main object is to enable you to find a Power (<---- did not say GWAD did it?) greater than yourself which will solve your problem.”
If you’ve ever attended 12-step meetings, you know you hear people talk about how they “used to be too smart to believe in God, but now they know better.” Or how they got respite from their disease when they “found god.” Chapter 4 takes on exactly this tone, insisting ( does not insist; you are though) that the Agnostic should just swallow what they hear and not object, for they may find use in this subject that has been so far “neatly evaded or entirely ignored.” (from page 45.)
Now here’s something that I’ve mentioned on this message board before, and that many people who attend 12-step meetings are frustrated with: I attempted to find help within the OA (Yepper, uses the AA book as a guide, your point about AA and it’s insistance that you HAVE to believe something has never been encounterd by me and yeah, I have gone to a few meetings… LOL) organization and rather than finding help with the actual PROBLEM, I (<-- what you focused on and so you tried another group because you didn’t like what you heard at this one?) found the focus on this “Higher Power” nonsense and spirituality and religion.
As I’ve said before, the problem with someone who has an eating disorder is FOOD, not a lack of a higher power. Yes, of course I understand that for some, religion can give them the strength to overcome that problem with food or alcohol. However, for some (maybe even most)(<-- jeez, you would have thought that AA, NA, CA, OA, SA, and all the other A’s would have died out by now.) it works better to focus on the problem at hand than to join a ‘church’ ** <-- you KNOW this?)** (Your opinion) (<-- I said that was my opinion? Where?) that involves ZERO experts on the subject and ZERO help getting the substance off your mind and living a normal life. If you want to stop obsessing over some means you’re using to destroy yourself, sitting in a room for three hours a week (or more) trying to concentrate on coming up with a higher power, while listening to people whine about exactly the substance you do NOT want to think about is probably not the answer.
-Laura **