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Okay, but it’s better than nothing. It’s free, and it doesn’t demand that you do anything other than show up. (Even the Hari Krishnas give you something to eat.) Usually courts tell you to do these things because of domestic violence or drunk driving. It doesn’t cost the taxpayer or the person convicted any money. Can you think of anything better? The worst is that you go and just fall asleep. It’s better than jail time, which never makes a person a better citizen, spouse, or driver.
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The way I see it is that society might find there is good reason to ensure that some individuals refrain from drinking - habitual drunk drivers, for example. I can’t see why any particular treatment should be mandated, however, or even any treatment at all.
You’re partly correct when you say that AA “doesn’t demand you do anything other than show up” - in fact, AA doesn’t even demand that, although meeting attendance is strongly encouraged.
Still, the idea is to remain sober, and on that score, we’re on our own. No-one else prevents us from picking up a bottle and consuming it. AA or otherwise, this is a fight we all have to win for ourselves.
That’s why I found it superfluous: once I’d stopped drinking, I had no need of daily meetings where the main activity is to talk about booze. But some folks say it helps them, so OK.
I don’t see it as a cult, though some aspects concern me. The “once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic” thing, for example - although no-one can give any useful definition of the word “alcoholic”. Sampiro somewhat alludes to this upthread. Many people object to Step 1, the declaration of “powerlessness” - I certainly do. It was the fact that I knew I was not powerless that led me to take steps to quit.
There seems, to my mind, to be a lot of unnecessary self-abasement involved in the Steps. There are also some weird mind traps which, to be fair, many AAers don’t take seriously. I’m thinking of ideas like the “dry drunk”, which pretty much means any sober person who doesn’t attend AA. There are also “interventions”, a disgusting concept.
In the last few years, I’ve met many sober folks, both in and (like me) outside of AA. As with any group, I’ve met a few raging loons in AA, something that isn’t too surprising for a group made up of alcohol abusers. But I’ve also met many sensible, grounded people. The sensible people, when they hear I’m not AA, usually wish me all the best. The loons call me a Satanic dry-drunk who’ll be dead in a gutter by the time I’m 40. Strikes me that plenty of other groups of individuals, drunks or not, would have the same spread of opinion.