I’m so bummed. None of my friends are online tonight because they all went out and my babysitter is out of town so I couldn’t go. My boyfriend is staying at his place because he has his son this weekend. (see my thread Problem Child for details on that situation) I’m really bored am just feeling terribly alone right now. Any ideas on how to make it through this night alone. Please be nice… it’s been a really rough week!
Kind of a long story. The “Problem Child” thread explains in a little more detail but to make it short, here it is:
His son has slept in his parents bed since the day he was born and continues to sleep with his mom when he’s with her. He used to stay at my place until he started whining and crying when it was time to go to bed because we wouldn’t let him sleep with us. Since my boyfriend stays at his place when he has him, he lets him sleep in his bed with him which doesn’t leave a whole lot of room for me and isn’t going to solve the problem. Plus, his sister is staying with him with her two boys until next week when she moves into her new place so it would be kind of crowded. Also, I feel that if I start staying at his place every other weekend when he has his son, he’s never going to get that boy out of his bed and the situation will never change. Not sure what to do about the whole thing. and
Also forgot to add that I have a 2 1/2 year old and 6 1/2 month old. Don’t really want them sleeping on the floor at his place when they have nice warm beds at my house.
sounds like his boy is going through some insecurity . . and dad better deal with it; be strong and focus on being dad . . talk with mom too . . kids need to have a bed . .a space . . their space
It’s okay. You could be like me and NOT go out because I prefer not to bar hop (which is what most of my friends do). Occasionally it’s fun, and there are those nights when I want to go out but think about it too late and end up staying home.
Kick back on the 'net, make some new friends.
Watch a movie that no one else but you likes.
Write a long letter to a long lost friend.
Snuggle with the kids (although late now) and watch The Lion King for the millionth time (hey, I don’t have kids and I own it and watch it once in a while.)
Curl up under a blanket and grab a cup of tea (or your favorite beverage) and read.
Research a new hobby you might like to take up. There’s a ton of information on the 'net for that. If you are into crafts you can find all kinds of instructions on how to do crafty things.
Turn on cable and check out the late night goofy movies, some of those are so stupid but for some reason you just get into them.
There are a ton of things…
Hey, Demo…as stupid as this may sound, I haven’t used IRC in about 3 years. I have mIRC, need instructions on how to connect though, it’s been ages!
There are at least a hundred servers I could connect to…I remember the basics, dinking around for a few minutes, but other than that knowing which server to connect to would be dandy information